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Friends

tracy2246 Posted:

Friends

so as some of you may know my best friend is a guy-a few months ago he met a girl and moved in with her within 2 Weeks-then asked her to marry him right after. When they first got together she was up my a$$ and then once she got the ring no more calls. I have been nice and I have welcomed her into our circle ( we are like family) and nothing but supportive ( even though the whole things is crazy and she was almost married before)-

so now I am in her BP and ha to literally chase her down for info on the dresses. The last few times she was in the same place as me she has been beyond rude. My friend feels that girls will we girls and that she just has issue with the fact that she wants to be number 1 in his life ( fine with me that is how it should be). In the last 3 weeks I have seen him once and last night he hinted to the fact that he thinks I should be the one to call her and clear the air.

Now the other day I went out of my way to email her and tell her that I am very happy that they are together and that I would like to spend some time with her ( it was a very nice email and not something I would just send to anyone) and she never replied-hello RUDE~

When we first met out of respect for my friend I asked her to be in my BP however now I am not comfortable having her in it-I also feel like she will not want to do the things we have planned ( all my girls have known eachother forever)...I told him and he said that I should tell her-
I know that she will either make him bow out of out BP or remove me from hers...
I am just sad and annoyed that he is letting someone dictate who and where he can go...

am I being over sensitive?

sorry so long
kaklesmay Posted:

Re: Friends

Not oversensitive at all. Sounds like she got what she wanted and doesn't need you anymore. Its sad. What she needs to realize is her life will be miserable with this guy if she abandons you, his best friend.

Good Luck,

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