friggin ugh

army wife to be Posted: May 23, 2007 07:20 PM

friggin ugh

OK well FH just got bak on thrusday and I have not been on since he got back. On friday I found something that almost made me break up with him and then he gave me an explanation. My heart said to believe him and my head said throw something at him and walk away. I decided to believe him because he has never lied to me before. But now I don't trust him anymore.. no matter how much I try to.. every time he leaves my house or we get off the phone I get anxiety.. I don't kow what to do.

denadewolf Posted: May 23, 2007 07:25 PM

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Hangin in there little mama!!! Go with your gut instincts. They usually don't lie!!!!

army wife to be Posted: May 23, 2007 07:26 PM

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thats the thing.. my guts aren't very good with helping me out.. i get nervous so I can't hear them!

brady37 Posted: May 23, 2007 07:33 PM

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Well if even a part of you doesn't feel right about it then you should really talk to you FH again about it! Maybe even go talk to a professional with you FH... you don't want to get married and then realize you had a reason to feel the way you do! Either way, I hope everything works out!!!!!

wifey08 Posted: May 23, 2007 07:35 PM

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i dont really know what to say cause i dont know the situation but im sorry your goin through this but imho if you get anxiety everytime he leaves do you think you can evenutally get over this if not is that how you want to live the rest of your life? sorry im not much help but if this really bothers you talk to him about it if it doesnt change you have to really think about things

army wife to be Posted: May 23, 2007 07:41 PM

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i know it sux.. if the wedding weren't so close it wouldn't be such a problem.. I'm thinking about calling it off so I have more time to think.. i don't know .. p.s if its more helpful to give advice wen u no wat happened fm me.

denadewolf Posted: May 23, 2007 07:43 PM

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We all get nervous!! Your not alone. Believe in yourself and you will find all the answers. I promise!!!!

shopaholic07 Posted: May 23, 2007 07:46 PM

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I'm so sorry you are going through this.......since whatever happened is significant enough to cause you to be anxious all the time, I would suggest that the two of you talk it out and maybe even see someone to guide you in the right direction.

I hope it all works out for the best