(from05) Living with FH now/after wedding??? Poll

Kim51103 Posted: Aug 01, 2005 09:25 PM

(from05) Living with FH now/after wedding??? Poll

Are you 2 living together....or are you waiting???

We are waiting ...gonna go apartment shopping, a couple of months before...and set everything up...so when we get back...it will look all nice and ready!!!

MissingTheBGene Posted: Aug 01, 2005 10:12 PM

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We're waiting until after as well.

Goldi1021 Posted: Aug 01, 2005 10:13 PM

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We just found a place to move in together now. It will save us both a lot of money to do it now. My portion of the rent that we will split is $150 less than what I pay now. since FH is a Cablevision employee, we won't have to pay for cable, internet or telephone (by having Optimum Voice. We have a lil over 6 months to go until the wedding. We are ready now!

conigs25 Posted: Aug 01, 2005 10:20 PM

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Matt and i close on our place in 2 wks but Im not moving in offically til after the wedding

Kim51103 Posted: Aug 01, 2005 10:22 PM

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Congrats! Where at??

Love_my_Freddybear Posted: Aug 01, 2005 10:24 PM

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Wow, what a difference 05 from 06.
More 06's don't live together. Most of 05 do!!!
Ironic.
Although, I am an 05-er that doesn't live together yet.

CKJ906 Posted: Aug 01, 2005 10:26 PM

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FI bought a condo 4 months before we got engaged, but I'm not moving in until afer we get married

ElegantBride Posted: Aug 01, 2005 10:40 PM

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We are waiting. We bought our house and are furnishing it to be ready for when we are married.

Goldi1021 Posted: Aug 01, 2005 10:44 PM

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We didnt live together for a good reason. at my age, I didnt want to cohabit until I had a ring on my finger. I wasn't about to uproot my life for a maybe. I had too much to lose. Once we were engaged, we felt it was the right time.

blushingbride2006 Posted: Aug 01, 2005 10:58 PM

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i think it is SO important to live together first - i think you really get to see eachothers true colors

JMO!

megandj Posted: Aug 01, 2005 11:12 PM

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We were planning on living together when we were just friends and then decided to continue with our plan after we started dating. We bought out house last year and I am glad we did that first - it worked the best for us, but it's not for everyone!

sarahbelle Posted: Aug 02, 2005 12:17 AM

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We've been living together for 2 years now. I love it.

soontobemrsv Posted: Aug 02, 2005 07:54 AM

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Posted by blushingbride2006

i think it is SO important to live together first - i think you really get to see eachothers true colors

JMO!

i couldn't agree more... we have been living together for a while now, absolutely love it, i believe its one of the best decisions i have ever made, besides of course, marrying him...lol

CalJoe0124 Posted: Aug 02, 2005 07:55 AM

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We did live together and now live seperate, we will move back in after we are married once we have a place!

kissy27 Posted: Aug 02, 2005 07:58 AM

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Considering we are closing on our house this month, we will start living together full time in November!

Nali Posted: Aug 02, 2005 07:59 AM

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We are going to wait....hopefully we would have bought a place to live by then..

Preshy7 Posted: Aug 02, 2005 08:25 AM

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we bought a house in march and we really had no choice but to live together - i had wanted to wait, but its just more convenient this way.
im livng it- im very happy

hmpena Posted: Aug 02, 2005 08:26 AM

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We have been living together for a year and a half! I love it and could not imagine not spending every night with him.

CaMacho Posted: Aug 02, 2005 08:27 AM

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We were long distance for 3 years (4 hrs apart)! So when we got engaged we did not want to be apart anymore. He got a job down here in NYC and we moved in together on LI a few months ago.

leese Posted: Aug 02, 2005 09:02 AM

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We've been dating (as you all know) long distance for 3 1/2 years.

I'm looking forward to moving just to be closer to him.

That said, we have two VERY OLD SCHOOL ITALIAN MOTHERS and one EXTREMEMLY OLD-FASHIONED FATHER WHO CARRIES A GUN FOR A LIVING!

So, we shall be living apart....but given that we will most likely be getting a place in his hometown, we'll probably be walking distance from each other.

I think after all this time, it'll be nice to officially live together AFTER the wedding. It's like 'all the waiting was worth it' kinda thing.

Plus, I've never lived alone. And I am a slob and want a couple of months of saying 'I live here, not you. If I want to leave the doritos on the couch, I will.'

I'm going to be a great roommate!