frustrated!!!!

So, fh's sis is one of my bridesmaids. She lives in Florida, has a baby and is separated from the father. Her baby is having some sensory issues and just started receiving early intervention servives. She is going through a lot right now and I understand that. However, i would really like to know if she is planning on being in my bp or not. She told me she was ordering the dress over a month ago and still hasn't! She isn't returning my calls or emails and no one is giving me a straight answer. I understand if she can't be in it but I would really like to know! Also, fh's brother got married last summer and this sis backed out of bridal party. Would appreciate any advice but really just needed to vent!!! Thanks

Aww how frustrating. I had a similar situation.....I'd say call and leave her a msg. reassuring her that it is fine if she can't do it but you need to know. Sorry you're having a hard time

Can your FMIL help? or someone that has been in contact with her? can your FH ask her? maybe they can relay the message, asking if she's still going to be part of the BP... just breathe, let her settle down a little, her baby is ill and thats her main concern right now. Give it a week or two and try contacting her, in the mean time try to find a replacement just incase she backs out. Hope everything works out!!