Frustrated...

To make a long story REALLY short, FH and I were really good friends with a group of guys a few years ago... They were all best friends before I entered the group, and they eventually became big brothers to me. When FH and I started dating, there were issues because I was dating a different guy in the group for a few years. It sounds messed up, but there's a lot to it. They all said they would stay neutral and be friends with me & FH and my ex. Of course that didn't happen, and FH & I haven't spoken to them in over 2 years. It was difficult more for me than FH because he was sick of the drama in the group, but I would have done anything for these guys.

Yesterday, FSIL ran into one of the guys we were very close with and he asked how she was, and she said that they were all getting ready for our wedding, and he said 'Big mistake... Big mistake your brother is making...' and of course FSIL stuck up for us, but still... I don't know why it's bothering me so much!! FH didn't care at all but it totally got under my skin that he would make a comment like that. I know boys are boys, and that they were all friends with him first..but it bothers me that I'm just considered another girl who left the group, although I hung out every day with these guys for years.. I watched girlfriends come and go, and now I'm in that category I guess.

Has anyone ever made a comment about you & FH getting married that just got under your skin so bad, and you know you shouldn't care, but you do??

People say hurtful things I think out of jealousy.

Don’t let it bother you too much FH was married once before and one of my friends told me nothing will ever be as special as it was with his first.

I told no it won't it will mean more stupid ppl.

people say such stupid things sometimes. don't worry about them, i know its hard but this is such a happy time for you so try to enjoy it and not let people get to you.

ohgosh I'm sorry, people are so awful

one of my friends (a guy) asked me if i was sure i wanted to tie the knot with fh.
it pissed me off but only for a short while.
ive known him for over 15years. he was only looking out for me. at least thats what i told myself. lol
he was at my house the next day with his wife the day after i got engaged. we got sh*t faced.heheh
i think he wanted me to marry him.lmao

some ppl want to push buttons just so they could feel important. dont give them the time or space in your thoughts or mind. eff them and be happy

plus, this should make you happy that you havent talked to them in 2 years. maybe your FH had the right idea about getting awaaaaayy from the drama!

you dont need that shiz!

good luck mama!

Yeah, FH 'was' friends with this one couple. The guy apparently dumped his girlfriend. So FH sent her a text saying sorry you know and next time we're out drinks on me or something like that. Next thing you know this guy is confronting him saying things like why did u text my girl, we always had our eye on you etc. Then another guy from the group of guys sends FH a text that says 'you shouldn't cheat when your engaged - stay away from my girl' or something. Funny thing is they're all a bunch of loosers who have no jobs or cars or anything thats why theyre always loosing their gfs

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Posted by StaceYums81

Yeah, FH 'was' friends with this one couple. The guy apparently dumped his girlfriend. So FH sent her a text saying sorry you know and next time we're out drinks on me or something like that. Next thing you know this guy is confronting him saying things like why did u text my girl, we always had our eye on you etc. Then another guy from the group of guys sends FH a text that says 'you shouldn't cheat when your engaged - stay away from my girl' or something. Funny thing is they're all a bunch of loosers who have no jobs or cars or anything thats why theyre always loosing their gfs

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My thoughts exactly! Ever since FH and I stopped hanging out with this group, our lives have been so much better. There was always drama and fighting, and we were sick of it. It was hard to lose them as friends but none of them have done anything with their lives whatsoever. People are so dumb sometimes... Always assuming things.