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frustrating BM's

LindsaylovesJustin Posted:

frustrating BM's

Today we went bridesmaid dress shopping for the first time... my girls didnt like anything that I like and at the end of the apointment we were so far removed from my original vision.

I have two VERY curvy plus size girls and two average size girls in my bridal party.

I want something vintage and grey or dark silver that will flatter all body types...

I am thinking that bridesmaid brands wont work so I have to start searching elsewhere.

let me know if you guys see anything cute while shopping!

TIA
LindsaylovesJustin Posted:

Re: frustrating BM's

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lindseynaggle Posted:

Re: frustrating BM's

going with the whole bridal party is very tough. Everyone has an opinion. You know the expression to many cooks spoil the pot? BMs should feel comfortable in their gown, but it doesn't have to be the end all be all best gown ever. You should pick one girl (maybe one of the less opinionated curvy girls) and just go with her. Ultimately its your decision!
As long as its not orange with green polka dots or a micro mini, they don't really have the right to say anything.
FutureMrsGTL Posted:

Re: frustrating BM's

I have 4 girls, each one is a completely different height, shape and size than the other. To make life easier I researched out a bunch of dresses and went shopping with just my MOH so I didn't have 4 girls all throwing out their opinions... We tried on a bunch of the dresses and found the perfect dress! then I emailed the other 3 like I found the dress here it is hope you like.

Fortunately no one objected to the dress.

Wow... I just re read this and it sounds kinda mean... It really wasn't meant to be mean though lol
LindsaylovesJustin Posted:

Re: frustrating BM's

haha it wasnt mean. Even the rep at the store was like you are the nicest bride I have ever met lol... but little does she know... dont mistake my silence for weakness. I am going to just pick the dress and tell them all to buy it... I am a curvy girl too so I know if it looks good on me.. in the right size, it will look good on my girls.. haha :)

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