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Frustration with BM!

shelly3950 Posted:

Frustration with BM!

I have one BM that lives out of town (I am only having 3 girls- and one guy) Well the other two loved the dress, but she didn't. She said she tried on some other dresses and she will send me the style info, but she hasn't yet. It is really frustrating!!! First she doesn't like the dress. Now she won't send me the links to the dresses she likes (I think her computer is broken...) My dress is in 5 months and I need to order the dress!!!!


Thanks for letting me vent!
Julestrd Posted:

Re: Frustration with BM!

I totally feel your pain. I hope she helps ya out soon
violetfairy Posted:

Re: Frustration with BM!

Call and give her a deadline. Tell her the bridal store wants your order by next week and you need to see her choices in the next 3-4 days. Good luck!
shelly3950 Posted:

Re: Frustration with BM!

thanks girls!!

juju Posted:

Re: Frustration with BM!

It's your wedding. You shouldn't have to compromise. BM's who say 'yes' say 'yes' knowing that they may not like the dress.

shelly3950 Posted:

Re: Frustration with BM! Updated!

Well I s/w her and she is going to send me the info on the dresses today. She told me although she doesn't love the dress, its my wedding and she doesn't want to cause problems. Although she prefers a different dress, she will do whatever I want because it is my day and she just wants to make me happy.

I love my friends. Thank g-d for small bridal parties ; )

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