FSIL Drama

A few weeks ago I posted about a horrible situation FSIL was in with some d-bag. Here is an update: I voiced my concerns to her and her family last week, I told her all about his criminal past, every single crime he has committed that I am aware of (all crimes against women), etc. etc. Well, she thought it was a smart idea to call him out on everything... obviously he lied straight to her face (meanwhile I have like hard copies of police records ) and now he knows that I dug up all this information so I am a little afraid now since he is such a violent and horrible person.

SO after I told FSIL the truth about him this is what happened:
-- FIL's have told me that I am not welcome in their house anymore (but a convicted rapist/wifebeater/assaulter, etc. is allowed to live there 4 days a week.)
-- FSIL told FH (her BROTHER!) that she wants nothing to do with our wedding.
I can't believe I am marrying into this family.

Meanwhile I am having dreams every night of this guy beating me to death. Also, I found out a lot more on him (I should become a PI haha) that I haven't told his family yet but I am holding onto the information until I find use for it.
The whole situation is ridiculous and it is beyond offensive and hurtful that almost everyone is taking the side of a convict that they have known for one month over me, their FDIL/FSIL.

He is due in court this Thursday for his most recent arrest... domestic battery: beating his PREGNANT GIRLFRIEND (his REAL girlfriend, not FSIL who is just an easy fcuk on the side...) so I am hoping he gets charged for something and gets put in jail but I highly doubt it because our justice system is too forgiving of crimes against women.

This situation is sooooo messed up and I can't believe it is still going on. FSIL obviously needs serious help.......

wow. i can't believe they are making you out to be the bad guy when you are just trying to protect them. im sorry you have to deal with this. hopefully your FILs, esp FSIL, come to their senses

thats HORRIBLE!!!!!!! im sorry to hear that your in laws dont believe you but in do time everyones true colors always tend to show.

Does FSIL know about his court date and waht its about?

I dont understand why they are mad at you. They have known you way longer than they know this criminal, just doesnt make sense. And for your FIL to not allow u in there house???

I hope everything works out for you. This is such a terrible thing to be going through.

OMG!! I can't believe that you are going through this - the is crazy!
I feel bad for you, I hope that a-hole gets put away!

I hope this d-bag gets put in jail, where he belongs, for a very long time.......

aside from that, I am really sorry your IL's are acting this way and I honestly can't believe they are making YOU out to be the bad guy!?!??!

At the end of the day, I totally think you did the right thing, whether or not they see it now.....don't worry, if that's how they want to act, then they don't deserve to be at your wedding!!!!

OMG I am really afraid for u and ur FH.
It is still beyond me how in the world ur in laws actually allow this to go on. W T F is wrong with them????
how can they take his side over YOU????

I hope ur FH is supporting u in all of this and will move in with u to get away from that psychopath.
and obviously u shouldnt have anything to do with his family esp FSIL, who needs these brain washed, insano's?

this whole situation is making me personally very angry, unbelievable that these dirt bags still get women who stand by them no matter what. W T F is wrong w/women???
IMO and out justice system won't change until after ALL women stand together against these animals.

omg! what a horrible person he is. and i cant believe that they said ur not welcome in their house, meanwhile that jerkoff is?!?! wow!!!!!! i wonder what the logic behind that idea was......
hopefully he won't hurt ur FSIL, too bad she doesnt get it that he's not a good person...

wow i'm so sorry!!!! people like this guy put on a good show and your fh's family probably think he is some saint or something. i'm sorry you are going through this and hopefully they all wake up soon and see this guy for who he really is.

wow, I can't even believe this is happening to you!

Just stay safe please! One day they are going to realize how nasty they are being to you!

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Posted by FutureMrsSoltan

I dont understand why they are mad at you. They have known you way longer than they know this criminal, just doesnt make sense. And for your FIL to not allow u in there house???

I hope everything works out for you. This is such a terrible thing to be going through.

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ITA... im completely shocked by this... i can understand FSIL being mad at you... but her parents... i just dont understand!

wow!!! that is horrible of FIL's to say that to you !!! Just stay away from FH's family and that a-hole FSIL is screwing..they will figure out you were right about him at some point!!

reading that whole thing made me so pissed off

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Posted by LouieDianna2010


Does FSIL know about his court date and waht its about?

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Yes.......
Well, she knows what HE told her happened.
But I also told her what really happened and she chose to ignore me....

Thanks for all the support ladies
It means a lot, especially since I am not really getting any.

wow!!!
I'm sooo sorry that you are dealing with this! It absolutely blows my mind that they are not believing their FDIL. What does FH think of the situation?

wow i'm sorry this is happening!
please stay safe!

what does fh say? maybe he can talk to his parents? their daughter should not be invovled w/this wacko!!!

i hope she gets out of that relationship asap!

WOW, I'm sorry that this is happening to you. Stay safe and you know what you did was right. I can't understand how they are taking his side over yours. Hopefully they figure it out soon.