FSIL Rant --long sorry

Get this one. I asked my FSIL to bring my Godson to our wedding he is 8 months old. She told FH no. So, I asked if she could at least bring him to the church because I really wanted to get pictures with him. She just told my FH that if I want pictures with him I will have to go to the house before the wedding and have them taken! But her sister-in-law got married back in February when the baby was only 3 months old and it was ok to bring him to the wedding. I have to tell you I can’t stand this girl anymore. She treats FH like a piece of garbage and there is nothing I can do about it. She torments her mother and I can’t stand to hear her speak to her own mother like she is the hired help. FH can’t stand her but his mom lives there and the only way we can see his mom and his nieces and nephews is if we go to her. I asked her to be in my wedding party and she said no she has to get her kids dressed. I told FH at that time she is sending us a message. He told me I was reading too much into it. Now, once this wedding is over I don’t really plan on seeing her anymore. For the kids birthdays and holiday I will send them their gifts and that will be it. Why do I have to go out of my way to be nice to someone who isn’t very nice to me? I just don’t know how I am supposed to be nice to someone who is so very nasty! I personally think that she is jealous because her brother is going to start a family and her kids aren't going to be the only ones anymore.

Is anyone else having issues with FSIL's?

One of my FBIL's girlfriend is the BM, and I am having doubts about it. One of the FSIL has been great but said that she won't get her kids ready early and dressed in suits for pictures at the hotel, were we are starting from (they are 8, 17 and 18). We are doing pics b4 ceremony since they are at same place. The other FSIL has been really annoying me. I emailed all of them to ask to help with favor wrapping, she said she never got the email. She always cancels at the last minute with everyone and since she is now unemployed, I asked her to take me to a therapy appmt tomorrow since I had surgery last week and can't drive-she didn't even respond to my 2 messages or email! She doesn't even live more than 10 or 15 min away. Additonaly-my shower was sunday and combined between the 3 of them-they gave me a fry daddy $60 which they probably got at 20 percent off and a splatter cover $4 and towel rack $8 without the discount!!! 2 of them were married last year and I spent $60 each and one I could not even attend the shower!!! They spent like $25 each, one being a BM!! I was floored. My family has been no better though. I hate family.

HA!!! I don't have issues w/ my FSIL as much as my MOH has issues with her LOL! I am sorry you're going thru this - I have been there!