ok so FH and I got engaged in Oct.... when we first started talking bout wedding planning we were first gunna do it in nov 2010...we changed it to march 2010 bc its a lot cheaper...well after FH and I got engaged his sister got engaged also in Jan. to her daughters father..they had kind of a falling out and were engaged previously and called it off...well when we were planning on having our wed in nov she said that she is getting married in feb of 2010 but wanted to have a kid first so that was her main goal was to have another baby...when we changed it to march we talked to her first to see if she was planning anything and she didnt have anything planned so she didnt mind us moving the date to march bc she didnt think she was gunna have it in feb bc she wants to be prego and now all of a sudden i just talked to her and she said shes getting married this fall! i just kinda feel like shes making it a need to get married b4 us and its kinda annoying me ...am i completely wrong for feeling this way or no? im just wondering if i am just being a bridezilla!!
Mrs Z To Be
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No, you are not being a bridezilla. Having said that, your best course of action is to smile sweetly and say nothing. Trust me from experience, these things will always work out in your favor.
angel1219eyez
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yea i know thats what im gunna do but i just needed to vent lol! i am having such a hard time iwth this bc she lives in florida so while planning our wedding we are going to have to pay for a plane ticket to fly there and give a gift also...and it just ***** bc his whole family is going to have to do the same and then a couple months after give another gift for another wedding and i didnt want to do that to them.... and the reason im so mad is bc my sister was supposed to get married in nov 09 and his family wanted us to get married in the begining of 2010 but i told them no bc i was not getting married within the same year as my sister bc i would be really mad if sumone did that to me..and she knew that and yet shes doin it....the only reason my wedding date changed was bc my sisters did to!
FallBride2010
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You cant help being annoyed...we just cant control what annoys us. I wish I could!! :) That being said, I dont think you can really get mad at her. If she was doing it the month before...maybe. But she is spreading it out, so she is showing some consideration
