fsil vent!

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Posted by HoosierCouple

i got a message on my home number (which i never check) from the guy we ordered the BM dresses from late last night saying that my fsil never paid for the dress deposit. Obviously i was mad and thought it could delay the order. i knew she was prob sleeping so i texted her saying 'i got a message from the dress guy saying you didn't pay yet. I am just making sure u sent the check'

well come this morning FH calls me saying FSIL was freaking out and thought it was so rude of me to do. Apparently the call was a few weeks old and she did pay (late though) but everything was worked out now. she threatened to not be in the wedding ,etc etc.

his family has a tendecy to freak out easily and quickly and then get over it so i am hoping this is the case. but fh doesn't want me to call her bc she didn't want him to tell me in the first place.

who knows? i guess i am just not that sensitive of a person--- she could have easily just wrote back to me saying 'that message must be old, everything is paid for' and move on!

she annoys me how sensitive she is!



Am i crazy??
Please tell me there are crazier FSIL out there??

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she sounds like a brat...i agree she should have just text u back that she took care of it...whats the big deal...she needs to grow up..i think everyone has their moments with their fsil..its the way it is

Sounds like she'd be doing you a favor if she dropped out of your wedding. Don't let her get any of her crazy on you!

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Posted by jilliibabii

Sounds like she'd be doing you a favor if she dropped out of your wedding. Don't let her get any of her crazy on you!

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ha that was the first thing i said to FH. she is no asset to the wedding--- she is not paying for anything for the shower, not coming to anything (shower or bach party) bc she lives out of state. she is more or less just showing up that day. she is in my wedding bc she is future family and i felt that was the right thing to do. plus ehr husband and child are in the wedding party as well.

call her bluff She's the one that would be the one stuck with a dress.

Yeah, seems like your text was harmless and inoffensive. She's probably super sensitive

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Posted by HoosierCouple

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Posted by jilliibabii

Sounds like she'd be doing you a favor if she dropped out of your wedding. Don't let her get any of her crazy on you!

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ha that was the first thing i said to FH. she is no asset to the wedding--- she is not paying for anything for the shower, not coming to anything (shower or bach party) bc she lives out of state. she is more or less just showing up that day. she is in my wedding bc she is future family and i felt that was the right thing to do. plus ehr husband and child are in the wedding party as well.

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Yeah, it is the right thing to do. Doesn't make it suck any less! At least since she's out of state you don't have to deal with her a lot. Hang in there!

What is up with these people?

Seriously, shed do you a favor if she dropped out!

At least you don't have to deal with her much

sounds like my FCIL.... just have to and ignore tantrums like that.


but good things all your girls are paid off!

dont let her bother you!!!
its your day and no one elses

Wow, talk about being difficult...
It's your wedding and if you had a concern with anything to do with it, you should be able to send a simple text asking/double checking everything is in order. Her freak out was totally uncalled for. She's either extremely sensitive or is looking for some attention from her brother