Ok, I have a dilemma. I am trying to choose my MOH and I have a childhood friend who chose me as her MOH this past February and I have my future Sis in Law who I have become very close with. I am leaning towards the SIL but I dont want to hurt my friends feelings..What should I do??
cds58019
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You can have two MOH's. I know many girls on here who have that. Dont forget ....this is your wedding, yuo can do whatever you want. But if you really only want one, thats only a decision you can make. Who's been there for you through rough times? Who do you share personal things with? Who will always be around for you even after the wedding? Just some questions to help you out. Good luck!
bluegreen08
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you can always have 2 MOHs... or in your case a Maid and a Matron
smjack
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i am having a matron and maid of honor- but you have to do what is best for YOU. If you want it to be your FSIL then it should be- you should base your decision on feeling badly or worrying about hurt feelings. Its YOUR wedding!
SOON-2-B-MRS-P
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I dont really want to have 2 because I am only having 3 girls total as it is. Like you guys said, I have to remember that its my wedding and I have to stop caring about what other people think!!! My FSIL is family and I know she will be there with me forever so I think that is who I will choose. Thanks for the advice!!
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Posted by SOON-2-B-MRS-P
I dont really want to have 2 because I am only having 3 girls total as it is. Like you guys said, I have to remember that its my wedding and I have to stop caring about what other people think!!! My FSIL is family and I know she will be there with me forever so I think that is who I will choose. Thanks for the advice!!
Glad to help!
MayWeddingGrl
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If you feel closer to you FSIL, then go with her, just because your Childhood friend asked you to be her MOH doesn't mean you have to pick her as well.
I think if you had your childhood friend in the wedding party its still a honor.
Good luck with your choice
angl2001
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i would go with whoever you r closest to
november152008
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i am having 2 Moh maybe that is an idea for you...
kimNanthony
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I have 2 MOH- one my best friend from growing up and my FSIL.
anneandchris
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There are a few other things you could do:
If you are only have three girls you can still have 2 MOH or one Maid and one Matron but only have on stand up with you at the alter and the other one sign your marriage certificate.
Or
Have all three stand up there with you. If FH is only have three guys too have the whole wedding party stand up with you.
Maid, matron, bm -- they are titles. the point is they are all there for you and your FH.
