Just wanted to let everyone know that you HAVE to be careful what you post on this website. apparently your not allowed to speak your true opinions about venders on here. Im not getting into any details because they are watching the boards...well maybe stalking the boards BUT i just wanted to warn you girls. you can post the most innocent comment about a vender but then you run the risk of getting a phone call. Its very disappointing to get phone calls from venders when you are paying them tons of money. Its very unprofessional. My advice to all of you is to either 1- not post your really wedding date OR 2- not post your real venders its sad but true.
fabulousmady
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wow that is SO wrong! i think we've all complained before about not being to give your TRUE opinion of a vendor on here. I mean sure they're paying to be on this site but we're paying for their services as well! just goes to show you that vendors who will actually take the time out to CALL you about a negative comment you made are worried about SOMETHING. i mean how do they even have time to be looking on here? shouldnt they be taking care of a wedding somewhere??? would make me think TWICE about that vendor.
FutureMrsLV
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Yes I know very wrong. I dont appreciate phone calls about a post that wasnt even negative. esp when Im paying you over $40,000! Theres more to the story but Im affraid to post it on here now! feel free to FM me
GT143EA
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I have heard this before. Its really sad.
egem523
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That is ashame these vendors are getting out of control by contacting the client the nerve. LIW should really not allow this. They should let these vendors know that under no circumstance should they contact on of us if they do not agree about something that was posted about them. Bad Business. I hope everything works out.
Another thing you should not be afraid to say what you feel. They need your business !!! You are not doing anything illegal and if the vendor is not an LIW then that should be consider harassment. Sorry it really annoys that they get away with stuff like that.
flairforfashion
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Wow. I can't believe they CALL people. That is really nervy!
Soon2BMrsC09
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Thats terrible - in that case if it happened to me im sure i would find a way to get it out there who they were and what was said - i already did about my makeup artist turned crazy...
Ann 52409
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It is veryyy unfortunate, I know I posted before about a dishonest DJ and its sad that brides cannot find out the truth about vendors instead of only the positive.
VickiR510
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Thats crazy! Geez they need to be taking care of whatever the person is complaining about instead of callign them about the comment! DUH
shell1879
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thats just sad that a vendor would do that.... how dare them i mean your paying for their services and if they want to be all whiney about truthful comments they don't deserve your time or hard erned $$$
vicky1125
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that's really ridiculous.
Fall BZ 2009
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It's a shame but true.....that is why one of the 08 brides left.
redvelvet
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yes...a bride was screamed on by one of her vendors and her account got deleted also
i got hooked on this site b/c of the ability to get opinions and chat about the vendors in the area. it was so helpful having a local chatboard with local brides and local vendors...it makes you wonder how acurate the posts are
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thank you so much for posting this That totally freaked me out b/c i have wrote stuff on here about experiance's i have had i feel like i have to watch my bach now lol. This should be for us ladies to vent and talk about anything not for vendors to see what were saying about them. They really need to get over it
GiantsBride
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You have to be really careful - maybe if you see someone isn't posted about a lot... then you might wonder if there isn't a bunch of good to say?
WinterGrl09
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I completely agree which is why i don't fill out my profile with all my vendors.
oldfriendoflive
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Wow that is not right. You have to be honset and give your opinion I thought that was what this site was all about. Well now I will think twice and not name any venders. Thank you for the heads up I did not think that that could happen. Wow Iam stunned.
longislandlibrarian
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it's soo unfair!! I hate when i see my friends go through this... one of my friends who i work with is an 08er..... and this happened to her
so_in_love630
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that *****!!!
Jsquared279
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This is bonkers! What in the world? I thought this was a forum to help each other not to be monitored by such vendors. I hope everything works out for you and whatever vendor harassed you, I hope they understand that they work for you not the other way around. In addition, I have nothing but positive things to say about my vendors. I am sure we have all had great experiences with the vendors we have chosen, otherwise why would we choose them?
It is a shame that people can be so unprofessional...sorry this happened girl!!
