Yesterday my brother and I had to make the horrifying decision to remove our father from life support. Against all odds and hanging on to his last breaths for 11.5 hours, after support was removed, he pasted peacefully.
I pray that no one has to go through what my brother and myself just did and we still have much to do. Things like this certainly make you appreciate life and the times you have with loved ones so much more. Please appreciate all the time you have with your parents. Make sure there is nothing that later on you will say you regret not doing or regret saying. My father and I had a wonderful relationship and I so wish that we could have spent even more time together. So, if you haven't spoken to your parents in a while or told them how much you appreciate them or love them then please take the time you would have made making that extra post or reading something trivial or non important and call them NOW!
Life is too short and precious - embrace it and allow love to grow in your heart!
Ron
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It pains me to read the news. My heartfelt thoughts are with you and your family.
kBr
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So sorry for your loss!!!
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i am so sorry for your loss, you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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Sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.
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I'm so sorry that you had to make that difficult decision.
DH and I are sending our most sincere condolences and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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My deepest condolences go out to you and your family.
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Ron and Family, my deepest sympathy to you. Mary
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I am so sorry to you and your family, but thank you for urging all of us to make the most of what we have.
I'm so sorry for your loss. That is such a difficult descision to make..but just know he is in a better place...I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers
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I am so sorry! I can imagine how hard that must have been for you! my thoughts are with all of you!
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers for your family.
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I'm so sorry. Losing a parent is very hard. At least you know you were close and don't have any regrets. Stay strong.
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i'm so sorry for your loss. you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
bella1028
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I am so sorry for your loss
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I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers & sympthies are with you.
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I am so sorry you had to go through that Ron! My deepest sympathies to you and your family...
You are absolutely - you dont know what you have until its gone. Put pettyness aside and be mature and forgive and forget - you get one set of parents - even if you have to be the bigger person to reach out - def reach out.