GEEZZ....SO sick of people telling me to wait for kids...

btrflygrl Posted: Aug 11, 2004 08:15 AM

GEEZZ....SO sick of people telling me to wait for kids...

Anyone else get the 'Give yourselves time...wait a few years'.....well MAYBE we don't want to wait that long!!!

wc0143 Posted: Aug 11, 2004 08:31 AM

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Nah, it's the opposite for us ... 'What are you waiting for?????'

2003fallwedding Posted: Aug 11, 2004 09:41 AM

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Posted by wc0143

Nah, it's the opposite for us ... 'What are you waiting for?????'

I get the same thing!!!! It does get quite annoying especially since we have been trying for almost 10 months.

matron Posted: Aug 11, 2004 10:56 AM

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Posted by 2003fallwedding

Posted by wc0143

Nah, it's the opposite for us ... 'What are you waiting for?????'

I get the same thing!!!! It does get quite annoying especially since we have been trying for almost 10 months.

Same here....

kpny622 Posted: Aug 11, 2004 11:14 AM

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yeah, everyone is saying to 'enjoy marriage for a few years'....um....I am already 32 years old, and we lived together for over a year before the marriage, so thanks but no thanks!

MrsTC Posted: Aug 11, 2004 12:20 PM

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no one ever says anything to us either way....but i am afraid when i do get pg that someone will make a rude comment like that!

Valentinegirl Posted: Aug 11, 2004 12:24 PM

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Posted by wc0143

Nah, it's the opposite for us ... 'What are you waiting for?????'

Us too.

boosh78201 Posted: Aug 11, 2004 01:30 PM

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Us too. We've been married for almost two years and both sides have been asking us.

Is it just me or its rude for someone to ask such a personal question like this?

Donna Posted: Aug 11, 2004 02:54 PM

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Posted by boosh78201

Us too. We've been married for almost two years and both sides have been asking us.

Is it just me or its rude for someone to ask such a personal question like this?

I think any of those comments are rude and I am always shocked when people say them, you never know if there are problems.
Just like I can't believe when someone asks someone if she's pregnant because they have a belly!!!

AliKing Posted: Aug 11, 2004 04:41 PM

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I dont tell anyone that DH and I are trying to have kids... because I know I would get the same speech. I dont think its anyone elses place to tell me when I should and should not...
You girls are the only ones who know we are trying

HearzBellz Posted: Aug 13, 2004 08:17 PM

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Posted by wc0143

Nah, it's the opposite for us ... 'What are you waiting for?????'

Ditto!

Sweetie2004 Posted: Aug 15, 2004 02:23 PM

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Posted by Donna

Posted by boosh78201

Us too. We've been married for almost two years and both sides have been asking us.

Is it just me or its rude for someone to ask such a personal question like this?

I think any of those comments are rude and I am always shocked when people say them, you never know if there are problems.
Just like I can't believe when someone asks someone if she's pregnant because they have a belly!!!

I agree! I have a friend who is having major trouble and I can't believe how many people ask her why they aren't having kids yet! Some people just don't think!

BTW I keep getting the 'What are you waiting for?' from the in laws....I can't stand it!