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Get out your tissues......

Original post by deirdre730

I would like to do this after we exchange vows and before our untiy candle ceremony. I was cryying reading this, so be prepared!!



The Hand Ceremony:

BRIDE'S NAME, please face GROOM'S NAME, and hold his hands, palms up, so you may see the gift that they are
to you. These are the hands of your best friend, young and
strong and vibrant with love that are holding yours on
your wedding day, as he promises to love you all the
days of his life. These are the hands that will work
along side yours, as together you build your future,
as you laugh and cry, as you share your innermost
secrets and dreams. These are the hands you will place
with expectant joy against your stomach, until he too,
feels his child stir within you. These are the hands
that look so large and strong, yet will be so gentle
as he holds your baby for the first time. These are
the hands that will work long hours for you and your
new family. These are the hands that will
passionately love you and cherish you through the
years, for a lifetime of happiness. These are the hands
that will countless times wipe the tears from
your eyes: tears of sorrow and tears of joy. These are
the hands that will comfort you in illness, and hold
you when fear or grief is in your mind. These are the hands
that will tenderly lift your chin and brush your
cheek as they raise your face to look into his eyes:
eyes that are filled completely with his overwhelming
love and desire for you.



GROOM'S NAME, please hold BRIDE'S NAME hands, palms
up, where you may see the gift that they are to you.
These are the hands of your best friend, smooth, young
and carefree, that are holding yours on your wedding
day, as she pledges her love and commitment to you all
the days of her life. These are the hands that will
hold each child in tender love, soothing them through
illness and hurt, supporting and encouraging them
along the way, and knowing when it is time to let go.
These are the hands that will massage tension from you
neck and back in the evenings after you've both had a
long hard day. These are the hands that will hold you
tight as you struggle through difficult times. These
are the hands that will comfort you when you are sick,
or console you when you are grieving. They are the hands
that will passionately love you and cherish you
through the years, for a lifetime of happiness. These
are the hands that will hold you in joy and excitement
and hope, each time she tells you that you are to have
another child that together you have created a new
life. These are the hands that will give you support
as she encourages you to chase down your dreams. And
lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled
and aged will be reaching for yours, still giving you
the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.
PegaLega Posted:

Re: Get out your tissues......

beautiful! I notebooked it too
erdbeere Posted:

Re: Get out your tissues......

O yea I love the hand ceremony!

We're doing a very similar one and everytime I read it I start crying... I told my sister about it and she started crying to even though I pretty much just told her the jist of it
CrazyLove Posted:

Re: Get out your tissues......

We are doing this!!!...THANKS U SO MUCH FOR SHARING!!!
TreAnt425 Posted:

Re: Get out your tissues......

We did this at the end of our last precana session, it was so nice!
winterwhite Posted:

Re: Get out your tissues......

Without starting trouble,
does anyone find this prayer a bit offensive as a woman.

The man working hard to support his family
the woman making babies.

the man comes home from a hard days at work and the woman rubs his shoulders? ***!

shes supporting his dreams (becasue hes strong)
hes wiping away your tears (because your not a strong as him)

It is beautiful,
but what about the woman working hard to support her family with her strong hands and dreams? Who's supporting her when she's not crying or making babies? who's rubbing her shoulders when she comes home from a hard day at work?


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