FH's cousin is getting married and they set their date for April so we went ahead and set our date for 05/17/2003...we keep making wedding plans, get our photographer, florist, dj and an array of other things and FH's cousins mother calls FH's mother and says 'She always wanted to get married in May but the place she wanted to get married was not available and now it is, so do you think it would be a problem if we changed her date to the night of 05/17/2003' WTF? Like the whole family is going to go from one wedding to the next.