Getting Married Bluess....tell me I'm not alone. (UPDATED)

Wifeynella Posted: Oct 29, 2008 03:00 PM

Getting Married Bluess....tell me I'm not alone. (UPDATED)

Its 16+ days to my wedding and yeah, I'm frantic to get things done but at the same time I don't want to do anything. we were supposed to go for our license today and I canceled.

I feel so blah and just want to crawl into bed for a few weeks and never leave. I'm upset with FH about a constant issue in our relationship so that doesn't help things.

Please tell em I'm not the only person who gets a little down before the wedding???

Maria31 Posted: Oct 29, 2008 04:00 PM

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You are not alone at all... you are just in emotion overload right now. I can definitely relate to what you are going through. The two days before my wedding were like an out of body experience. I felt so blah and really didn't want to do anything! I couldn't explain it and everyone thought I was nuts bc I wasn't jumping around shouting 'YAY, I'm getting married!!!' lol... That was just my way of calming myself down and absorbing this huge step we were about to take. Just ride with it, do what you have to do. On the day of your wedding, all of those feelings will go away and you will feel amazing!! HTH!

SFAR89 Posted: Oct 29, 2008 04:03 PM

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Posted by BklynBride2Be

Its 16+ days to my wedding and yeah, I'm frantic to get things done but at the same time I don't want to do anything. we were supposed to go for our license today and I canceled.

I feel so blah and just want to crawl into bed for a few weeks and never leave. I'm upset with FH about a constant issue in our relationship so that doesn't help things.

Please tell em I'm not the only person who gets a little down before the wedding???

yeah, you are probably mentally getting ready to stop stressing over things, so your body is like 'okay relax now please!'. Don't forget you have I think 24 hours before your ceremony to get your license, so don't sweat that too much.

If you are having an issue with FH, you need to tell him that it's bothering you. If its reoccuring, maybe you need to be like 'look, this is going nowhere whenever we argue about this, can we come to some sort of an agreement?' this way you guys aren't mad during the wedding or before the wedding :(

LIBride1121 Posted: Oct 29, 2008 04:08 PM

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OMG…I thought it was just me. I have a little more than 3 weeks left and I don’t feel like doing anything. Most of this is being brought on by a very rude comment my FMIL made to us the other night. Ever since I spoke to her, things haven’t been the same with FH. I was even thinking why am I marrying into this family…is this what I am going to have to put up with for the rest of my life? I don’t know, maybe it is just that we worked so hard for this and now that it’s almost here we are pooped. Hopefully things turn around for you!

Costabeba Posted: Oct 29, 2008 04:09 PM

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Hi Date twin

Im stressing a lot, there is still so much to do and so little time. But well get through it. Our day will be the most amazing dayof our lives like so many great women on this board has written. DOnt worry when your ready you'll get back into it....

Wifeynella Posted: Oct 29, 2008 04:27 PM

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i feel better knowing its not just me.

KimberlyScott Posted: Oct 29, 2008 05:25 PM

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Push the issue aside until after the wedding (if you can) and don't let it bring you down.

yswedding Posted: Oct 29, 2008 06:35 PM

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I really don't know your issue or anything to give advice. But I was depressed for weeks before wedding and we had no issues I could logically come up with now. I was just not dealing well with change.

The wedding day was like a dream and everything after has been great.

So when all the hectic-ness of the wedding is passed maybe you'll feel better?

Kricket212 Posted: Oct 29, 2008 07:05 PM

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It's me too........I am soooooooooooo DONE with this. I don't want to do anything either except go to Aruba. LOL
I think I will cry in celebration when it's over. LOL

Wifeynella Posted: Oct 30, 2008 11:41 AM

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Update:

I got everything off my chest yesterday with FH last night, so I'm hopeful it'll all be ok.

Today (Fh's bday ) we went and got our marriage license.

I'm not at 100% but I feel better. I think you are all correct, I'm think I'm just powering down to actually gear up for the big day!