i just brought this up to FH yesterday our priest told us to do it in Dec of this year so i looked up the dates and to tell FH-- which he is still in the mind set of yeaaa we have lotsss of time! all i said was lets get it done with .. he thinks in the next few months when we are looking for a place to live billing all these bills me looking for a new job because i live upstate that he is going to want to go then.. ha ha! i should of just booked it and told him when it was!