I am having EXTREME difficulties getting people together for anything.
first fh's bro couldn't make the date we set for our bbq/e-party, so we had to postpone. we decided to get our immediate families together sooner for a smaller GTG, but now they can't do this Sunday either!!! GGRRRGGRRGGRRR
also, I still have YET to get my BP together to look at dresses...there's only THREE of them...you'd think I had 20 with so many scheduling conflicts!!!
ugh...I really am hating wedding planning right now.
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I was just thinking 'GRRRRRRRRRR'!!!! I hate wedding planning too! I only have ONE person in my wedding party, my best friend. And she is NEVER available to do anything wedding related! The only person that is helping me is my mom who lives out of state, my FH's mom hasn't asked about plans or even when the wedding is!!!!! SO, don't feel bad, the grass isn't greener over here! I hope things go well for you! Just focus on the good stuff!
leese
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don't worry - you have a lot of time to get those bridesmaids dresses!!! maybe scheduling far in advance would be easier?
kellwolfe
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Honey I am sorry It will work out ...some time I think people forget home important all this is to us....It will work out take a deep breath ...
and that was SO nice of you to change the date of your party for him....I hope he thanked you-
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I'm worried about that too, I have 5 BMs...Ugh I love them all though, but I know they are all busy. Definately tell them all like 2 months in advance...Good Luck!!!
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Sorry you are stressing. It will all work out. That is what I tell myself when I'm stressing.
Try to relax and vent away it will definitely make you feel better.
JessicaM.
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Posted by shellnroc
Sorry you are stressing. It will all work out. That is what I tell myself when I'm stressing.
Try to relax and vent away it will definitely make you feel better.
thanks ladies
hey Michelle,
Did you decide on photog yet?
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You know this is THE exact reason I had them all look at the links of dresses that I liked for them so they can look at them and tell me what they thought, after about 5 they all came to a unamous (sp??) and we decided on one. So now all they have to do is go the the store and get fitted. This way I don't have to go with all 5 of them!
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and that was SO nice of you to change the date of your party for him....I hope he thanked you-
thanks Kell! a thank you! yeah right...they thanks I got was 'no, that's a bad day for us too' when I gave them the alternate!
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and that was SO nice of you to change the date of your party for him....I hope he thanked you-
thanks Kell! a thank you! yeah right...they thanks I got was 'no, that's a bad day for us too' when I gave them the alternate!
ewhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh that stinks, sorry!!! It must be soooo frustrating!
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awww, sorry Jess :(
Here's some for you!!
shellnroc
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Sorry you are stressing. It will all work out. That is what I tell myself when I'm stressing.
Try to relax and vent away it will definitely make you feel better.
thanks ladies
hey Michelle,
Did you decide on photog yet?
Yeah Right!!!!!!
I have been very undecisive. I also have been completely lazy with wedding planning at least with my own planning. My friend is getting married this July and I have been doing stuff for her, between her shower and now going for fittings etc.
I keep making a list for myself to get done but I haven't been doing it.
Aren't you glad you asked me. Now I'm venting to you. lol sorry
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So sorry sweetie. I hope that things have gotten better for you.
JessicaM.
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Sorry you are stressing. It will all work out. That is what I tell myself when I'm stressing.
Try to relax and vent away it will definitely make you feel better.
thanks ladies
hey Michelle,
Did you decide on photog yet?
Yeah Right!!!!!!
I have been very undecisive. I also have been completely lazy with wedding planning at least with my own planning. My friend is getting married this July and I have been doing stuff for her, between her shower and now going for fittings etc.
I keep making a list for myself to get done but I haven't been doing it.
Aren't you glad you asked me. Now I'm venting to you. lol sorry
I'm sorry for bringing it up. I've just been meaning to ask! what are we here for anyway if we can't vent to each OTHER! good luck sweetie. there's time yet!
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well, now we've decided it will just be our parents and whoever else is available next Saturday for dinner. we are going to reschedule the bbq for some time in sweltering hot July- NOT my problem. people will have to suck it up!
thanks for listening ladies.
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I am so sorry your going through this and your very nice to change the date I would of just went along with the plans and say screw em if they can't show up.
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Sorry you are going through this. I am happy to see you are still getting together next week. Enjoy your bbq when it happens.
conigs25
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Scheduling people is the BIGGEST headache ever
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It is just so frustrating to try and accomodate everybody's schedule.