Gift question for the married ladies
So, I'm sure I'm not the only person that's had this issue, so I'd like some advice on what to do here...... 2 part question:
1. Going through the gifts and cards we got AT the wedding, we got one gift that was not attached to any card. A very nice Vera Wang vase. Now, there is only one card we got at the wedding that did not have $$ nor did that person send anything in the mail - so I'm pretty sure that has to be who the vase is from, right? But, is there a polite way to ask them that and find out, incase it wasn't from them?
2. There's about 10 people that attended our wedding we did not get anything from. I know that technically they have a year to send something, but I still find this odd considering who a couple of them are. And a couple of them I know have financial issues, which is fine by me, I knew not to expect something to begin with.But, for the others, this is a bit odd. Like one girl got married within the past 3 years, and sent me a bridal shower gift - I would definitely think she'd give me something at the wedding, she's not the type of person not too. I'm HOPING cards didn't get lost, I accounted for everything that people handed me - but, how to I find out if they DID get lost, or in fact these people just didn't give anything? I don't want to sound rude, incase they just haven't sent anything yet, but at the same time I'd feel horrible if a card was misplaced, or a gift was lost in the mail.......
Any solutions to this??
1. Going through the gifts and cards we got AT the wedding, we got one gift that was not attached to any card. A very nice Vera Wang vase. Now, there is only one card we got at the wedding that did not have $$ nor did that person send anything in the mail - so I'm pretty sure that has to be who the vase is from, right? But, is there a polite way to ask them that and find out, incase it wasn't from them?
2. There's about 10 people that attended our wedding we did not get anything from. I know that technically they have a year to send something, but I still find this odd considering who a couple of them are. And a couple of them I know have financial issues, which is fine by me, I knew not to expect something to begin with.But, for the others, this is a bit odd. Like one girl got married within the past 3 years, and sent me a bridal shower gift - I would definitely think she'd give me something at the wedding, she's not the type of person not too. I'm HOPING cards didn't get lost, I accounted for everything that people handed me - but, how to I find out if they DID get lost, or in fact these people just didn't give anything? I don't want to sound rude, incase they just haven't sent anything yet, but at the same time I'd feel horrible if a card was misplaced, or a gift was lost in the mail.......
Any solutions to this??
