girlfiends

catgirl069 Posted: Apr 10, 2004 08:16 AM

girlfiends

My girlfiend Jenn wants me to be with another women before I get married. She says its something i should experience. I am thinking about it. Has anyone else come across this problem. Can someone give me some ideas what to do.

Thanks

LovelyL Posted: Apr 10, 2004 08:24 AM

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Well.......I'm a little confused. Are you entering into a gay marriage and your FW wants you to be with another woman first?

Or....are you straight and one of your friends thinks you should have a lesbian experience before you get married??

catgirl069 Posted: Apr 10, 2004 08:38 AM

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I am straight she wants me to have a lesbian experience, have you tried ?? What should I do??

LovelyL Posted: Apr 10, 2004 08:42 AM

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Although I think women are beautiful, and the better-looking sex, I am not sexually attracted to women at all. To be honest, the thought of me being with another woman makes me a little queezy. No offense to anyone at all.

Sorry I have no advice to offer!

Rainmama Posted: Apr 10, 2004 12:26 PM

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Interesting question....I'd call that cheating! It doesn't matter what the sex of the other person is...cheating is cheating. If you're considering it, are you really ready for marriage?!

marymoon Posted: Apr 10, 2004 12:38 PM

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Umm..if you were really interested in women, you'd have come up with this on your own. Even if you had, why complicate things? If you have a good thing with your FH (which I'm assuming you do, b/c you're getting married), then why complicate it even with the idea of getting in bed with another person. if this were something that were going to bother you forever, that u never did it, it would ahve come up on its own.

JMHO

wenndypoo Posted: Apr 10, 2004 01:03 PM

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Posted by marymoon

Umm..if you were really interested in women, you'd have come up with this on your own. Even if you had, why complicate things? If you have a good thing with your FH (which I'm assuming you do, b/c you're getting married), then why complicate it even with the idea of getting in bed with another person. if this were something that were going to bother you forever, that u never did it, it would ahve come up on its own.

I agree.

prncssrachel Posted: Apr 10, 2004 01:25 PM

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Ladies, come on, it's a

JZNCK Posted: Apr 10, 2004 01:28 PM

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easy solution, you don't want to cheat and your curious..

do it with FH and another woman !!!!!

I'm just kidding by the way.. I read my fi the post and he said, some guy just wrote that.. PROBABLY!!!!!!!!!!

marymoon Posted: Apr 10, 2004 01:37 PM

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Posted by 121502

Ladies, come on, it's a

Yeah, I relaized that after I posted. It seemed a little odd...

ETA: Look at the profile....ummm...suuuureee

AJsMommy122 Posted: Apr 10, 2004 01:38 PM

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get a life

jill13bean Posted: Apr 10, 2004 01:43 PM

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yeah really just like the one where she found all of her husbands dirty websites or something like that get a life!!

dm24angel Posted: Apr 10, 2004 02:35 PM

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yeah the numbers in the name and the cat woman can be references to other things as well...uggghhh...people dont have better things to do with their time?

SteffieSunshine1 Posted: Apr 10, 2004 03:11 PM

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That's sooo funny!!!

And I was all ready to give the 'MOM' answer...

'And if your friend told you to jump off a bridge...would you do that too!'

Rainmama Posted: Apr 10, 2004 03:16 PM

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Yes, well maybe she is a big, fat pinocchio trying to start some BS thread...or maybe she is someone with a legitimate question and felt like using an alias to seek out advice without anyone knowing her true identity....

prncssrachel Posted: Apr 10, 2004 03:18 PM

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Posted by Rainmama

Yes, well maybe she is a big, fat pinocchio trying to start some BS thread...or maybe she is someone with a legitimate question and felt like using an alias to seek out advice without anyone knowing her true identity....

Ok, fine, then here's some real advice, ditch the friend who thinks this is a good idea. Problem solved.

Rainmama Posted: Apr 10, 2004 03:25 PM

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Posted by 121502

Posted by Rainmama

Yes, well maybe she is a big, fat pinocchio trying to start some BS thread...or maybe she is someone with a legitimate question and felt like using an alias to seek out advice without anyone knowing her true identity....

Ok, fine, then here's some real advice, ditch the friend who thinks this is a good idea. Problem solved.

LOL...yes, that's good advice. My initial feeling on the matter was that her friend 'Jenn' has an alterior motive...