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girls, give me the strength!!!

ant n tilde Posted:

girls, give me the strength!!!

to trust FH with our invitations

i was going to go tonight to hand cancel them and send them out but then i saw thunderstorms tomorrow so i want to wait until wednesday

so, FH says 'i will take them Wednesday morning, don't worry about it'

I explained that he didn't know how to hand cancel them, and he replied that I don't know how to do them either he will just ask.

So I said that I would see but OMG I have done EVERYTHING for this wedding - how can I give up control over this? What if he does something wrong?!

So just tell me it is okay to let him take care of it and I am being crazy.

aaaaand go!
Kimbalina Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!

HE WILL DO A GREAT JOB!!!!!
Do not worry!! He is just as excited as you! Everything will be alright!
jgl Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!

im sure he knows better than to mess up hahhaha

im sure he will be fine

I went to the post office on Sat to mail my STD's and asked if i could hand cancel them - they told me they dont let people do them anymore he would have to do them later.
ant n tilde Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!


Posted by jgl

im sure he knows better than to mess up hahhaha

im sure he will be fine

I went to the post office on Sat to mail my STD's and asked if i could hand cancel them - they told me they dont let people do them anymore he would have to do them later.



oh boy FH would LOVE that and I would never believe him

i called earlier and the guy said ' as long as you do it yourself you can come any time'

every PO is different i guess!
DNS91308 Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!


Im sure FH will be fine......I actually think you are awesome for letting him do it. I dont know if i would have had the strength to surrender control...





jgl Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!


Posted by ant n tilde


Posted by jgl

im sure he knows better than to mess up hahhaha

im sure he will be fine

I went to the post office on Sat to mail my STD's and asked if i could hand cancel them - they told me they dont let people do them anymore he would have to do them later.



oh boy FH would LOVE that and I would never believe him

i called earlier and the guy said ' as long as you do it yourself you can come any time'

every PO is different i guess!



Yeah I guess so

i said can i hand cancel them for you and he said no - whatever i really dont care at this point haha
soon2BMrsMcD Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!

girl you are good....I would never trust gar
angl2001 Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!

hand cancel?
hwolf812 Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!


Posted by angl2001

hand cancel?



me too??
yelley77 Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!

Let him do it. He will do the best job he can do because he knows how important it is to you!!!

jenlen Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!

It'll be okay!! my FH was the one that took our invites to the post office to be hand cancelled too. I wrote him directions on what to ask for and everyone got theirs in perfect condition!

ant n tilde Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!

ok that is the support i need - THANK YOU!

ant n tilde Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!


Posted by hwolf812


Posted by angl2001

hand cancel?



me too??



ok at the PO the invites go through TWO machines
the first one is the one at YOUR PO and the second one is at the receiving PO.

when you hand cancel it stops the invite from going through the FIRST machine and getting all stamped all over

i have REALLY THICK invitations so the woman said i should hand cancel them - meaning they give you an actual stamp ( as in an INK stamp ) and you stamp over the postage on the envelope and then it doesnt go through that first machine

this is how i understand it anyway
MattandTricia07 Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!

We didn't hand cancel them and our invites were perfectly fine- so even if he does mess up for some reason- they may be okay.
ant n tilde Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!


Posted by MattandTricia07

We didn't hand cancel them and our invites were perfectly fine- so even if he does mess up for some reason- they may be okay.



yeah i wasnt planning on doing it
actually i think its stupid LOL but the lady said they were too thick so now i am paranoid

but you are right - i am sure they will be okay either way!
JavyL008 Posted:

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oh...so many little details. I'm not even close to invite time but it makes my head spin tinking about the crucial details

JimmysPants Posted:

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He will be just fine with them.
minibride08 Posted:

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WOW- big step for him!! I think my FH would be too nervous... Good for him! I'm sure he'll be extra careful & all will be delivered with care
AS Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!

Im sure those are just as important to him as they are to you. If he doesnt want a bridezilla on his hands he WILL take care of the invites. I would trust my FH to deliver them but not pick them out
ant n tilde Posted:

Re: girls, give me the strength!!!


Posted by MPAS

Im sure those are just as important to him as they are to you. If he doesnt want a bridezilla on his hands he WILL take care of the invites. I would trust my FH to deliver them but not pick them out



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