girls.... i am so sad, i wish i could do it again....

esb980 Posted: Jun 20, 2006 12:57 PM

girls.... i am so sad, i wish i could do it again....

I think i am having wedding withdrawal!! Am I the only one.... I am happy to be married, but I wish I could re live the day! I feel like I am not ever going to have a day so grand again.... it's depressing....

evnme Posted: Jun 20, 2006 01:01 PM

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FallBride05 Posted: Jun 20, 2006 01:07 PM

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I felt the same way after the wedding. That feeling will be less and less as the time goes on. One weekend around our 4 month mark, we were unpacking boxes in our house and just organizing things in general. I cried as I put all our pre-wedding things in a storage bin to bring up to the attic. All our rsvp cards, guest lists, stuff from my shower, etc....

As you get into a routine and grow into married life, it gets easier.

cantwait2bewed Posted: Jun 20, 2006 01:12 PM

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I am too girl

meniasta Posted: Jun 20, 2006 01:26 PM

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same here........and my wedding was only 3 days ago......

Sunrise813 Posted: Jun 20, 2006 01:33 PM

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Aww sorry to hear that.
I actually was so relieved it was done , I had the most amazing time, but would never want to g o thru wedding planning agagin.

I say enjoy TODAY, plus there are so many other things to look foward to as you start your new married life with your DH.

hmpena Posted: Jun 20, 2006 01:42 PM

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I felt the same way for a while. However, now I don't miss it so much. I love being married and am enjoying being a newlywed.

EMES2006 Posted: Jun 20, 2006 02:02 PM

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I haven't missed the planning yet. It's so nice to come home from work, have dinner and relax on the couch.

I spent the last couple of months on the computer at night, making appointments, scheduling different things, and worrying about the final details that I didnt spend much time with DH.

I like being able to read a book and not feel like I should be doing something else. I've already got a few things I want to start focusing on now that the wedding is over.

I loved the planning, but it's nice to move on to something else now.

soon2bcopswife Posted: Jun 20, 2006 02:45 PM

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I have been married 45 days, and althought it was fun planning, I am sooooo happy to be done.

Every night there was something else to do, someone else to talk to, or some other project to complete. Now I can come home, work out, cook dinner and read.

Once I get these thank you cards sent out, I will really be happy!!!!

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Jun 21, 2006 09:34 PM

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I just had such a good time, and it made me realize how much fun my DH and i can have with each other and our friends - to tell you the truth, I had even more fun during our after party, and we were doing things we would normally do with each other!!!!

It was a blast, and I'm glad it happened - I could never ruin that feeling by being sad about it!

MayBride06 Posted: Jun 21, 2006 09:41 PM

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Posted by soon2bcopswife

I have been married 45 days, and althought it was fun planning, I am sooooo happy to be done.

Every night there was something else to do, someone else to talk to, or some other project to complete. Now I can come home, work out, cook dinner and read.

Once I get these thank you cards sent out, I will really be happy!!!!

well said!! Same for me!! A huge weight has been lifted and I am my self again!!

ewickens Posted: Jun 21, 2006 10:12 PM

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I'm looking forward to the time back again - not that I don't want to plan, but it would be nice to have leisure weekends again without something needing to be done!

EmberLynn Posted: Jun 21, 2006 11:10 PM

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awww... Honey!! Enjoy married life. Hold hands and just enjoy being married. Wait for the holidays, when you go to your parents and inlaws as the newly married couple! First Thanksgiving married, first Xmas/Channakh (forgive me if I missed spelt that Leslie.) You'll feel better.