girls i need advice (kids at wedding)
fh and i decided the only kids we are going to have at the wedding are our nieces & nephews (how do we both tell our sisters they can't bring their kids lol)
last night he was saying that he might have to invite his 3rd cousins kid who will be 17 at the time at first i said ok thats fine he really is not a kid but this 17 year old have 2 little sister that will be 9 & 10 now how do we tell the parents you can bring your 17 year old and not the other..
plus his other 3rd cousin who is brother with the above parents i mentioned has kids also now what are we going to invite one brothers kids and not the other.. so i told him now way then if we invite them with their kids other people are going to say well how come they were invited with kids and not me ..
the only other kid i am inviting that is not a nephew or neice is my uncle''s kid who is MY 1ST cousin ..
there is no need to start inviting 3rd cousins kids.. im sorry i dont even want kids their but that was already spoken about with our parents we have to have our sisters kids there.. i just don't think kids should be at a wedding you want to dance and have fun you dont want kids running around the dance floor playing tag lol and bumping into people
so how do i tell him NO to the 3rd cousins thing without starting a argument
and its really not my fh its his mom
but what i dont understand is when my fh brother got married his brother NO to kids and it was ok but now that its us she is saying we have to think about it .. why us???
last night he was saying that he might have to invite his 3rd cousins kid who will be 17 at the time at first i said ok thats fine he really is not a kid but this 17 year old have 2 little sister that will be 9 & 10 now how do we tell the parents you can bring your 17 year old and not the other..
plus his other 3rd cousin who is brother with the above parents i mentioned has kids also now what are we going to invite one brothers kids and not the other.. so i told him now way then if we invite them with their kids other people are going to say well how come they were invited with kids and not me ..
the only other kid i am inviting that is not a nephew or neice is my uncle''s kid who is MY 1ST cousin ..
there is no need to start inviting 3rd cousins kids.. im sorry i dont even want kids their but that was already spoken about with our parents we have to have our sisters kids there.. i just don't think kids should be at a wedding you want to dance and have fun you dont want kids running around the dance floor playing tag lol and bumping into people
so how do i tell him NO to the 3rd cousins thing without starting a argument
and its really not my fh its his mom
but what i dont understand is when my fh brother got married his brother NO to kids and it was ok but now that its us she is saying we have to think about it .. why us???
