Girls I'm upsetting myself

awww...you are type A. Just breathe...relax, let people surprise you!

I know it's easier said than done but try to only focus on the details that need to concern yourself with for planning. I'm the total opposite, I'm usually completely oblivious to everything and stuff just flies right over my head. I'm just worried that my sister will make sure that I have decent makeup and clothing on and my hair done nicely when the time comes because I'll have no idea!

Just try to breathe, relax, and let others handle this one for you. If you happen to find out about it, hey, at least you can plan a kick a$$ outfit to wear! You'll be surprised no matter what.

I did the same thing to myself. In the end, I actually picked the date for my shower because I was sooo stressed out and just couldn't handle any surprises.

BUT.... I think when I walked in and saw all my friends and family (and some I was surprised were able to make it), it felt like a big surprise anyway. I was so touched that everyone put in the effort they did and it was all for me.

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Posted by L&M2006

So I am the type of person who picks up on little details and it seems like my mind is always going and I'm always thinking - and I keep thinking about my shower. I know me and I know I'll figure it out, even though I want it to be a surprise! In fact, I think I've already figured it out. I know in the whole scheme of things its not a big deal and I'll still be surprised by what my girls do for me, but it still makes me upset. Why do I set out to torture myself? Does anyone else do this? Okay, venting about myself is over.

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I totally understand. I am exactly the same way. I think I already have it all figured out too. I wish I could just let myself enjoy things but I can't seem to!!!

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Posted by L&M2006

So I am the type of person who picks up on little details and it seems like my mind is always going and I'm always thinking - and I keep thinking about my shower. I know me and I know I'll figure it out, even though I want it to be a surprise! In fact, I think I've already figured it out. I know in the whole scheme of things its not a big deal and I'll still be surprised by what my girls do for me, but it still makes me upset. Why do I set out to torture myself? Does anyone else do this? Okay, venting about myself is over.

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Wow girl.. You sound just like me. Welcome to a day in my life!!!

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Posted by cjb88

you aren't alone!! Im the same way too... and this whole suprise thing is completely stressing me out also!! i know that im going to ruin it for myself and figure out when it is...

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exactly!! but i feel a little better knowing i'm not the only one. fh says i'm a busybody - but i really am not doing it on purpose! grrr