How do you tell a vendor that you admire that you have chosen to use another vendor for the wedding?
The particular vendor is great, has even gone above and beyond in the customer service aspect offered to beat any prices, throw in things for free, etc.
The work impressed me, but unfortunately it didn't come close to blowing me away like another vendor's work did.
How would you approach the other vendor about it, without being rude or unappreciative? I feel I owe this vendor the respect of knowing that although I was happy with the service, I am using someone else. Would you call? Drop an email?
Thanks.
tonimike
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Blame it on your FH.. Seriously , I had a similar situation & just told em , im sorry my fh likes so & so & being that he really is not opening his mouth much i have to do what he says,,
Soon2BeMrs2006
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Blame it on your FH.. Seriously , I had a similar situation & just told em , im sorry my fh likes so & so & being that he really is not opening his mouth much i have to do what he says,,
hehe poor mike, but love that idea.
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Blame it on your FH.. Seriously , I had a similar situation & just told em , im sorry my fh likes so & so & being that he really is not opening his mouth much i have to do what he says,,
yuppers...or on another family member 'My FMIL has now decided to pay for our XXXXX and therefore she already has someone she wants to use. '
Soon2BeMrs2006
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Posted by tonimike
Blame it on your FH.. Seriously , I had a similar situation & just told em , im sorry my fh likes so & so & being that he really is not opening his mouth much i have to do what he says,,
yuppers...or on another family member 'My FMIL has now decided to pay for our XXXXX and therefore she already has someone she wants to use. '
I was thinking that too. Thank you.
dianadrw
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Posted by tonimike
Blame it on your FH.. Seriously , I had a similar situation & just told em , im sorry my fh likes so & so & being that he really is not opening his mouth much i have to do what he says,,
yuppers...or on another family member 'My FMIL has now decided to pay for our XXXXX and therefore she already has someone she wants to use. '
I like that one!
tonimike
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Posted by tonimike
Blame it on your FH.. Seriously , I had a similar situation & just told em , im sorry my fh likes so & so & being that he really is not opening his mouth much i have to do what he says,,
yuppers...or on another family member 'My FMIL has now decided to pay for our XXXXX and therefore she already has someone she wants to use. '
I was gonna suggest that too !!!!
Please I balme him for alot of the vendors we went to look at & didnt use, I was like , well my fh really felt more comfortable with so & so , ^ being that the grooms kinda go along for the ride, its belivable,, Plus , not for nutin , aint no one gonna question fh decision after meeting him ,, LOL...
Soon2BeMrs2006
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Plus , not for nutin , aint no one gonna question fh decision after meeting him ,, LOL...
Soon2BeMrs2006
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suzzi7404
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I blamed it on my inlaws! I said that they were paying for the particular vendor so I had to go with who they wanted. I said I was so sorry and that if it was us to me I would have chosen them but unfortunatly it wasn't.
Shorty McBride
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these are all pretty good ideas Mich!
Trishthedish
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I would probably call and tell them the truth and just tell them that you are very sorry.
I am just a very honest person. LOL.
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Posted by tonimike
Blame it on your FH.. Seriously , I had a similar situation & just told em , im sorry my fh likes so & so & being that he really is not opening his mouth much i have to do what he says,,
