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did you guys tell the priest that you live together if you do????????????????
no not at all! I think me and my FH and 1 other couple are the only ones that dont live together. The book you get actually says things like if you live together what made you come to the decision..things like that ya know
They never asked and we never told. Of course the addresses that we filled out are different from each others.
Posted by jcslady
did you guys tell the priest that you live together if you do????????????????
i dont think its a big deal. they ask your address when you meet with him but thats it. so many people live together now a days i wouldnt lie, just be honest
The priest was never present for the discussions. We had leaders (married couples from the parish) that led group discussions. I don't believe they ever asked specifically if anyone lived together. A few couples offered up the information when responded to questions from the leaders. HTH
the deacon that is marrying us know that we live together but the pre cana people havent asked so we wont tell lol
Hey ladies! We haven't scheduled our selves for the precana classes b/c its too early. To those of u guys that have done it, is it just 2 days? What is it like?
Ours is 1 night at the church to meet & pick dates, 3 meetings in home of hosts, 1 substance abuse in church and now the newest thing is another 2 nights in a FOCCUS!! WHich we werent told about until last minute!!
i just started precana tonight...it was at someones house and everyone admitted that they lived together haha only one couple dont yet
Our priest nows we live together!!!! I know he knows this since he christened our daughter ha ha ha he had no problems
I think we did, I don't remember if they asked that but we didn't lie at all and they were ok with everything, even raising the kids jewish.
They didnt really ask that, but in our group sessions (without a priest) it was pretty comfortable and two of the couples revealed that they did live together, and no one judged them.
We haven't done precana yet, but foccus (which is before precana in our church) and right now we don't live together but will be once we start precana in June. Based on the 'quiz' we did for foccus there was a section about cohabitating couples so I really don't see what the issue is anymore. It's a lot more common now.
the priest never asked us. we put two diffrent addresses on our application. when we took the test we answered the living together question. that was in the FOCUS class. the other part we had to go to was 2 days long we went on a weekend for 6 hours each day. we listened to a bunch of diffrent people talking about diffrent topic and that was it. we were never asked by a priest if we live togeher
