we are having a DJ - should we do a first dance together? ive only been to a few e-party's and I've seen it done......did you do it?
040508Bride
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i didn't....saving it for the wedding and i can't wait!!
bella1028
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it is a cute idea...we had ours at a restaurant though without a dj...but i think if you are having one...dance a 1st dance...why not?
jgl
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its really just up to you
FH and i wanted to party, we wanted to just enjoy being with everyone. We wanted to save all that stuff for the wedding. so basically we didnt want the eparty to be like the wedding
so we choose not to do speechs, cutting cake ceremony. we didnt do the 'first dance' but we did do one dance in the middle together and called everyone to join us.
Future Mulligan
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Posted by jgl
its really just up to you
FH and i wanted to party, we wanted to just enjoy being with everyone. We wanted to save all that stuff for the wedding. so basically we didnt want the eparty to be like the wedding
so we choose not to do speechs, cutting cake ceremony. we didnt do the 'first dance' but we did do one dance in the middle together and called everyone to join us.
thats a good idea......i dont know what we are going to end up doing!! im just praying for no rain - the party is all outdoors!!!
yelley77
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in the middle of our party my aunt made them play our wedding song and made us dance to it and I was really upset. I wanted to wait until the wedding. But it wasn't that bad, but if I could do it over, I wouldn't have done it.
JTsGal829
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we are having ours tom. and probably won't do an official first dance.. although i did ask the DJ to play a few slow songs.. my matron of honor said she may say a few things.. but it will be brief and not a big deal..
on the other hand my girlfriend's eparty was soo nice.. they had a 2 year engagement and they did a dance and cut the cake... the moh and BM made a Speech and it was very nice.. so i think it's just up to you. you can do it any way you'd like... I think a dance would be nice.. i don't see why you couldn't add it in there.. we just decided against it because we wanted as much time to party as possible and didn't want to cut into that with a lot of formal stuff..
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in the middle of our party my aunt made them play our wedding song and made us dance to it and I was really upset. I wanted to wait until the wedding. But it wasn't that bad, but if I could do it over, I wouldn't have done it.
OMG i would have been so mad. thats def something i think that girls want to save for the wedding
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we are having ours tom. and probably won't do an official first dance.. although i did ask the DJ to play a few slow songs.. my matron of honor said she may say a few things.. but it will be brief and not a big deal..
on the other hand my girlfriend's eparty was soo nice.. they had a 2 year engagement and they did a dance and cut the cake... the moh and BM made a Speech and it was very nice.. so i think it's just up to you. you can do it any way you'd like... I think a dance would be nice.. i don't see why you couldn't add it in there.. we just decided against it because we wanted as much time to party as possible and didn't want to cut into that with a lot of formal stuff..
have fun tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!
KiTTeN0819
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Posted by jgl
its really just up to you
FH and i wanted to party, we wanted to just enjoy being with everyone. We wanted to save all that stuff for the wedding. so basically we didnt want the eparty to be like the wedding
so we choose not to do speechs, cutting cake ceremony. we didnt do the 'first dance' but we did do one dance in the middle together and called everyone to join us.
We did this.. It was very nice and then my mom made a speech to thank everyone for coming since she hosted the party..
JTsGal829
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we are having ours tom. and probably won't do an official first dance.. although i did ask the DJ to play a few slow songs.. my matron of honor said she may say a few things.. but it will be brief and not a big deal..
on the other hand my girlfriend's eparty was soo nice.. they had a 2 year engagement and they did a dance and cut the cake... the moh and BM made a Speech and it was very nice.. so i think it's just up to you. you can do it any way you'd like... I think a dance would be nice.. i don't see why you couldn't add it in there.. we just decided against it because we wanted as much time to party as possible and didn't want to cut into that with a lot of formal stuff..
have fun tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!
thank you
yelley77
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we are having ours tom. and probably won't do an official first dance.. although i did ask the DJ to play a few slow songs.. my matron of honor said she may say a few things.. but it will be brief and not a big deal..
on the other hand my girlfriend's eparty was soo nice.. they had a 2 year engagement and they did a dance and cut the cake... the moh and BM made a Speech and it was very nice.. so i think it's just up to you. you can do it any way you'd like... I think a dance would be nice.. i don't see why you couldn't add it in there.. we just decided against it because we wanted as much time to party as possible and didn't want to cut into that with a lot of formal stuff..
have fun tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!
thank you
yes, have fun and come back with LOTS 'O PICSS!!!
JimmysPants
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We did NOT do it. Wanted to make the e-party as casual and comfortable as possible. It was great and had soooo much fun!
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we are having ours tom. and probably won't do an official first dance.. although i did ask the DJ to play a few slow songs.. my matron of honor said she may say a few things.. but it will be brief and not a big deal..
on the other hand my girlfriend's eparty was soo nice.. they had a 2 year engagement and they did a dance and cut the cake... the moh and BM made a Speech and it was very nice.. so i think it's just up to you. you can do it any way you'd like... I think a dance would be nice.. i don't see why you couldn't add it in there.. we just decided against it because we wanted as much time to party as possible and didn't want to cut into that with a lot of formal stuff..
have fun tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!
thank you
yes, have fun and come back with LOTS 'O PICSS!!!
don't worry.. i have my MOH, my aunt, and my mom all armed with tons of film and my mom's laptop in case the digital cameras all get filled..lmaoo i'm a bit of a picture freak.. thnx again girls.. BTW: it's 10 to 4 in the AM and i'm not getting very much sleep because of my stupid sinus headache...arggg...lol just figures that it would happen when i actually neeeed to be awake the next day!!!! lolol.