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girls who have been here awhile...

Original post by SugaBeans

have you noticed that there are alot of girls that use to post ALOT and now they dont even come on anymore? i was thinking about a girl the other day that i never see on here any more. hope the weddings are still on. where did everyone go? (not that I dont like the newbies) guess everyone is just busy.

florezpeeps Posted:

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yeah, their bosses had liw blockedddddddddd on their comps!
Toucan311 Posted:

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This is making me very sad! I feel like us newer '08 people are being labeled as the drama starters! Not all of us are AND there are some older people who get offended and also say catty things sometimes! I think anytime you get 809809 future brides together, or 890890 woman for that matter, you're going to eventually get some friction! I'm really NOT feeling the love on this thread. Not offended, and not being dramalama, but realy not feeling well liked as a group!

JimmysPants Posted:

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Posted by dancinmyazoff


Posted by Papillon25

Maybe they already got their t-shirts and have no more incentive




lol agreed I think we need incentive gifts....possibly LIW sweat pants when we reach 10,000



I actually joined the LIW boards back in January 2006 but never posted up until maybe 3-4 months ago. I had no idea what it was all about and so I never posted. I wouldve had my T-shirt a lonnnggg time ago.
JimmysPants Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

This is making me very sad! I feel like us newer '08 people are being labeled as the drama starters! Not all of us are AND there are some older people who get offended and also say catty things sometimes! I think anytime you get 809809 future brides together, or 890890 woman for that matter, you're going to eventually get some friction! I'm really NOT feeling the love on this thread. Not offended, and not being dramalama, but realy not feeling well liked as a group!



Ditto!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

This is making me very sad! I feel like us newer '08 people are being labeled as the drama starters! Not all of us are AND there are some older people who get offended and also say catty things sometimes! I think anytime you get 809809 future brides together, or 890890 woman for that matter, you're going to eventually get some friction! I'm really NOT feeling the love on this thread. Not offended, and not being dramalama, but realy not feeling well liked as a group!




i think most of us realize that since there are more ppl of course more opinions and personalities so we can figure that is why theres more drama...but at the same time there are ppl who are just rude, but what can you do.

Weren't you just saying yesterday that people take things to seriously and nothing anyone says can offend you...i think you're taking this completely wrong...if you dont cause drama and dont do these things then you shouldn't even let it phase you bc it doesnt apply to you. Look at the newer girls who posted on here who agreed and said they feel uncomfortable posting bc they knew it didnt apply to them.
Autumn08 Posted:

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Posted by hayleyandsteve

ps -- i remember some 08 girls yelling at the 07 girls not to post on 'their' boards.... and me telling them that they'd be looking for the 07 girls' advice as their year apporached.... and isn't that true!

good thing i don't hold a grudge i like to help the 08 girls



I remember that. Never understood why anyone wouldn't be allowed to post on any board... drama drama drama...
MikeandJess Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

This is making me very sad! I feel like us newer '08 people are being labeled as the drama starters! Not all of us are AND there are some older people who get offended and also say catty things sometimes! I think anytime you get 809809 future brides together, or 890890 woman for that matter, you're going to eventually get some friction! I'm really NOT feeling the love on this thread. Not offended, and not being dramalama, but realy not feeling well liked as a group!



I don't think it's the newer 08 brides faults at all. Sorry if anything I said made you feel this way, it was definitely not intended to. I agree that it's the fact that there are more girls on the board that is the reason for the drama. No one in particular, like you said, just differing opinons.
Autumn08 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

This is making me very sad! I feel like us newer '08 people are being labeled as the drama starters! Not all of us are AND there are some older people who get offended and also say catty things sometimes! I think anytime you get 809809 future brides together, or 890890 woman for that matter, you're going to eventually get some friction! I'm really NOT feeling the love on this thread. Not offended, and not being dramalama, but realy not feeling well liked as a group!



There's always been 'drama' and I agree with you, it's not new people it's soooo many women posting on a message board. And a big part of it is that you are posting on a message board and not speaking to people. It's very easy to misinterprit the tone of a post.
cbcf Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

This is making me very sad! I feel like us newer '08 people are being labeled as the drama starters! Not all of us are AND there are some older people who get offended and also say catty things sometimes! I think anytime you get 809809 future brides together, or 890890 woman for that matter, you're going to eventually get some friction! I'm really NOT feeling the love on this thread. Not offended, and not being dramalama, but realy not feeling well liked as a group!


sorry heather that you are not feeling the

here are some

but in all seriousness...i think you are right when you get a bunch of women/brides there is going to be some sensitivity flying around as well as arrogance...but hey if i dont agree sometimes i just wont post or sometimes i will and defend my position but doesnt mean i gotta start crap like some past drama we have had...

but i feel bad i think everyone is just saying it used to be so different when less people were on. and now i feel like there is a new person on everyday and its so hard to catch up lol

but i like you heather!! come one now your from suffolk!!
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by Mimacat

This is making me very sad! I feel like us newer '08 people are being labeled as the drama starters! Not all of us are AND there are some older people who get offended and also say catty things sometimes! I think anytime you get 809809 future brides together, or 890890 woman for that matter, you're going to eventually get some friction! I'm really NOT feeling the love on this thread. Not offended, and not being dramalama, but realy not feeling well liked as a group!



Thats totally true, I guess I do get offended! Who knew! Not so much that I'm offended, just that I feel bad that I got the impression some of us new ppl werent wanted here! But, youre right, I'm not a drama starter, so how could it be me?


i think most of us realize that since there are more ppl of course more opinions and personalities so we can figure that is why theres more drama...but at the same time there are ppl who are just rude, but what can you do.

Weren't you just saying yesterday that people take things to seriously and nothing anyone says can offend you...i think you're taking this completely wrong...if you dont cause drama and dont do these things then you shouldn't even let it phase you bc it doesnt apply to you. Look at the newer girls who posted on here who agreed and said they feel uncomfortable posting bc they knew it didnt apply to them.

Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by cbcf


Posted by Mimacat

This is making me very sad! I feel like us newer '08 people are being labeled as the drama starters! Not all of us are AND there are some older people who get offended and also say catty things sometimes! I think anytime you get 809809 future brides together, or 890890 woman for that matter, you're going to eventually get some friction! I'm really NOT feeling the love on this thread. Not offended, and not being dramalama, but realy not feeling well liked as a group!


sorry heather that you are not feeling the

here are some

but in all seriousness...i think you are right when you get a bunch of women/brides there is going to be some sensitivity flying around as well as arrogance...but hey if i dont agree sometimes i just wont post or sometimes i will and defend my position but doesnt mean i gotta start crap like some past drama we have had...

but i feel bad i think everyone is just saying it used to be so different when less people were on. and now i feel like there is a new person on everyday and its so hard to catch up lol

but i like you heather!! come one now your from suffolk!!



Party at my trailer later!!
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Mimacat

This is making me very sad! I feel like us newer '08 people are being labeled as the drama starters! Not all of us are AND there are some older people who get offended and also say catty things sometimes! I think anytime you get 809809 future brides together, or 890890 woman for that matter, you're going to eventually get some friction! I'm really NOT feeling the love on this thread. Not offended, and not being dramalama, but realy not feeling well liked as a group!



Thats totally true, I guess I do get offended! Who knew! Not so much that I'm offended, just that I feel bad that I got the impression some of us new ppl werent wanted here! But, youre right, I'm not a drama starter, so how could it be me?


i think most of us realize that since there are more ppl of course more opinions and personalities so we can figure that is why theres more drama...but at the same time there are ppl who are just rude, but what can you do.

Weren't you just saying yesterday that people take things to seriously and nothing anyone says can offend you...i think you're taking this completely wrong...if you dont cause drama and dont do these things then you shouldn't even let it phase you bc it doesnt apply to you. Look at the newer girls who posted on here who agreed and said they feel uncomfortable posting bc they knew it didnt apply to them.




Also, i'm dumb and can't post correctly and my response is hidden within yours!

Heres my real reply: Thats totally true, I guess I do get offended! Who knew! Not so much that I'm offended, just that I feel bad that I got the impression some of us new ppl werent wanted here! But, youre right, I'm not a drama starter, so how could it be me?
ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by SAMORY


Posted by Papillon25

Maybe they already got their t-shirts and have no more incentive






I don't think that's it because when I first started I didn't know about a t-shirt and I was on every day al day (in the summer) and was because I don't work in the summer but once school comes back in two weeks, then you will bearly hear from me.

Everyone has that busy time and that down time. Let's just all take a few minutes when you are praying and ask God to keep them safe.



i just have to say:
you are always so positive. . .it really is a gift! I know you helped me through a really tough time and I can't imagine how many other brides you have helped on here!! don't ever change!!!
dancinmyazoff Posted:

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Posted by Future Mulligan

i hope you guys are still around when i get married - im one of the last 08er's




Don't worry I'll definitely be here...whether you all like it or not lol!!!!!!!! mwwwuuuahahahaha
Fall Bride 2008 Posted:

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Posted by Mimacat

This is making me very sad! I feel like us newer '08 people are being labeled as the drama starters! Not all of us are AND there are some older people who get offended and also say catty things sometimes! I think anytime you get 809809 future brides together, or 890890 woman for that matter, you're going to eventually get some friction! I'm really NOT feeling the love on this thread. Not offended, and not being dramalama, but realy not feeling well liked as a group!




Dont take it that serious
Mizzdimple Posted:

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I say...why feel offended if you didnt do anything wrong...
Fall Bride 2008 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by Mimacat

This is making me very sad! I feel like us newer '08 people are being labeled as the drama starters! Not all of us are AND there are some older people who get offended and also say catty things sometimes! I think anytime you get 809809 future brides together, or 890890 woman for that matter, you're going to eventually get some friction! I'm really NOT feeling the love on this thread. Not offended, and not being dramalama, but realy not feeling well liked as a group!




i think most of us realize that since there are more ppl of course more opinions and personalities so we can figure that is why theres more drama...but at the same time there are ppl who are just rude, but what can you do.

Weren't you just saying yesterday that people take things to seriously and nothing anyone says can offend you...i think you're taking this completely wrong...if you dont cause drama and dont do these things then you shouldn't even let it phase you bc it doesnt apply to you. Look at the newer girls who posted on here who agreed and said they feel uncomfortable posting bc they knew it didnt apply to them.

Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by Mizzdimple

I say...why feel offended if you didnt do anything wrong...




I JUST WANT YOU TO LIKE ME.
Autumn08 Posted:

Re: girls who have been here awhile...


Posted by dancinmyazoff


Posted by Future Mulligan

i hope you guys are still around when i get married - im one of the last 08er's




Don't worry I'll definitely be here...whether you all like it or not lol!!!!!!!! mwwwuuuahahahaha



Melissa,

Didn't you once say you will still be here when the '08 boards go into the archives? LOL
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Fall Bride 2008


Posted by Mimacat

This is making me very sad! I feel like us newer '08 people are being labeled as the drama starters! Not all of us are AND there are some older people who get offended and also say catty things sometimes! I think anytime you get 809809 future brides together, or 890890 woman for that matter, you're going to eventually get some friction! I'm really NOT feeling the love on this thread. Not offended, and not being dramalama, but realy not feeling well liked as a group!




Dont take it that serious



yeah you cant...please i was attacked on here a couple of times...someone joined or made a new name just to attack me and make a whole huge thread saying thing about me until they got kicked off. Another girl who did the same and tried to get personal. Others chimming in. She even made a poll to see if ppl like me
and i told her i voted 'I HATE ESPO'

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