Our Jack n Jill is tonight and 16 of us were supposed to get together. We ordered the tickets to where we're going a couple of days ago and now as of last night 2 people are sick and undecided as to if they're coming - 1 called me to tell me her boyfriend isn't coming(after making a big deal that she really wanted him to come and emailing me about it numerous times) and 1/2 the people don't know how they're getting to where we're meeting!! I don't know how these people manage on a daily basis! I want to throw my head thru a wall and just crawl into bed for the night- they're taking all of the fun out of this!!
sandj100304
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Just try to stay calm. If they make it, they make it. If not, don't let it ruin your night. This night is for the 2 of you. Just try and let it all roll off your shoulder and look forward to having a good time with the people who are there.
SReidy
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Thanks- I'm trying to. I just never give people a hard time the way everyone seems to be giving me a hard time and I want to scream!! I'm beginning to think that I'm too easy going!
I dont know what a Jack n Jill is exactly, but I want to say I am sorry for the headaches you have to be getting from your friends. Try to relax and have a good time anyway.
SReidy
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Jack n Jill is a joint bachelor/ette party.
Thanks!
Lorena
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That kind of thing always seems to happen when there's a big group involved. Someone is always left trying to coordinate everyone and ends up getting aggrevated. I agree with everyone else, it's your night, just tell them where and when and leave the rest up to them. Turn off your cell phone, email, whatever you have to and just worry about you and FH. If they really want to be there they will find their way.
Have a great time!
SReidy
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Thanks - I'm feeling a little better now that I 'vented'
