Going to be an aunt for the1st time!!! but have an issue!

JayBee216 Posted: Feb 17, 2010 06:02 PM

Going to be an aunt for the1st time!!! but have an issue!

but the baby is due 9 days before my wedding!!!!!!!!!!

So I'm not sure that my brother will attend or be in the groomsman party!!! He lives in NH and I'm assuming will want to be w/ his fam?

GR2010 Posted: Feb 17, 2010 06:15 PM

Re: Going to be an aunt for the1st time!!! but have an issue!

Yay and booo... maybe he'll make the trip without wife and baby.

Future Mrs H Posted: Feb 17, 2010 06:17 PM

Re: Going to be an aunt for the1st time!!! but have an issue!

Congrats on being an Aunt!

Have you called him to ask him about it?

JC297 Posted: Feb 17, 2010 06:21 PM

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call and ask him. My SIL is having a baby 16 days before my wedding. And shes a BM

MrsC2010 Posted: Feb 17, 2010 06:29 PM

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aww well congrats that your gonna be an aunt!!! being an aunt is amazing....your gonna love it!!!

as for the wedding....that stinks i really hope she has the baby a few days early so that they have some time to recoop afte rthe baby comes and then at least he can try to make it.

i am in a similar situation with my cousin (a bm)...she is due 6 days after my wedding so i am really hoping she has the baby on time or way early so she can be there.

if not it will stink but im sure your brother will feel terrible too. unfortunately its just bad timing and yoou;ll have to wait and see what happens

Melvin1297 Posted: Feb 17, 2010 08:20 PM

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2 of my bm's are having babies. one approx.6 weeks before the wedding so she's ok but my other one is due 2 weeks bore and already dropped out. Happy for them but I really wanted her there.

flibbertigibbet Posted: Feb 17, 2010 08:35 PM

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i'd hope he comes ... but w/o the fam.

its not that far. he can leave for a night.

for his sisters wedding. if she gives him a hard time about it she's a bishhh.

gravemiss Posted: Feb 17, 2010 08:39 PM

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I have the same issue my sister-in-law and brother are having thier first baby and are due 7 days before my wedding. My SIL is a BM and my brother is a Gm and is also walking me down the aisle!!! I know in the end everything will work itself out....trying not to stress over this now. Esp. since they want to bring the baby to the wedding...so we shall see.