I left work early on Friday to get my marriage license before i went for my 2nd fitting...
We went to the Manhasset town hall and got denied. We called ahead of time and they told us we needed either a Drivers License or Passport AND ALSO either a Birth Certificate or Naturalization Papers, or a Baptismal Certificate.
My Fiance had his Drivers License and Naturalization Papers.
I had my Drivers License and Baptismal Certificate. My Baptismal Certificate was sent to me with my Catholic name written first followed by my legal first and last name. The woman at the town hall said it was not valid because my legal first name should be written first with my baptismal name in the middle and then my last name!! She said there were no exceptions and said she would hold the office open for 45 minutes (until 4pm) while we tried to get my birth certificate from the Mineola town hall since I was born at Winthrop hospital in Mineola. We tried to do it and when we found the Mineola town hall it was closed for Good Friday. I was so PISSED OFF!
Now I have to try to get the church to send me a new baptismal certificate with my name written differently. I think the next time around we'll go to a Queens or NYC town hall before work in the morning since neither of us can take days off before the wedding.....
afrodyt2000
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Sorry about the hassle! If you do go to Queens City Hall, you only need to show your drivers licenses. FH and I got ours there last month.
cherilicious16
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Posted by afrodyt2000
Sorry about the hassel! If you do go to Queens City Hall, you only need to show your drivers licenses. FH and I got ours there last month.
Yup! Downtown Manhattan was the same thing! It was almost TOO easy... I have a harder time buying liquor...and I'm 31!
jenafee
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We did ours in Brooklyn and only showed our driver's license too. Very easy and quick.
dalgitang
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thanks for the suggestions! i'll most likely go to the Queens office!
diva7531
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Good Luck, I hope it goes better next time!
RGV07
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dang!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that messed up....
rkl1130
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Sorry you had so much trouble
Tiggeruth
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I had heard that different offices can be very particular. I wanted to get mine in Westchester and my local office would not do it with a baptismal certificate, so i called around and ended up going to white plains because they would.
Sorry you had the hassle, but hopefully this will help someone else out as a heads up before they go to that particular place themself.
HollyMac
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So frustrating! You think that they would give complete instructions!
babygap79
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That's awful. We went to the Hempstead Town Hall and only needed to show our passport and drivers license. They actually asked for 2 forms of ID, we did have our baptisim and naturalization but they never asked for it. Maybe try the Hempstead Town Hall.
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Posted by cherilicious16
Posted by afrodyt2000
Sorry about the hassel! If you do go to Queens City Hall, you only need to show your drivers licenses. FH and I got ours there last month.
Yup! Downtown Manhattan was the same thing! It was almost TOO easy... I have a harder time buying liquor...and I'm 31!
This is good to know, thanks ladies!!
LaurenF
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that is SO annoying.
AlliCatB
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sticklers, eh?
good luck getting that together. I feel your pain, I have no patience for the run-around!