Got excited..

when FH's wedding band came. It was exciting and a little (a lot?) awesome to see it on his hand when he tried it on. Is that silly? It felt silly.

He was also really supportive when I had a mini meltdown yesterday and told him I had decided I hated everything we picked for the wedding. He just kinda laughed and helped me go through everything. It didn't hurt that he said he would marry me anywhere & anytime, even if the color of my earrings didn't exactly match my necklace (which still drives me nuts!! So I ordered new earrings lol). Perspective! haha.

Yes!! That is really exciting and not silly! I'm excited to see FH wear a wedding band too :)

Mini melt downs are perfectly acceptable...especially since your date is so close!!!

Oh girl, mini meltdowns have become my friends. You'll get used to them, and FH will understand them.

Don't sweat the small stuff - everything will really fall into place! I have about three anxiety attacks a day and I just have to remind myself of what's important and that everything will get done.

Aww Kat, don't stress about the meltdown. I tell FH at least once a week that we're in over our heads and that I want to change everything lol. I think it gives all these fiances a chance to shine and save the day, making us brides feel better. A little reminder why you want to marry him!

Congrats on the wedding band! That's so sweet!! I will be just as excited to see FHs too!

I love that you worried about your earrings matching your necklace if only because that sounds like something I'd fret over!

I'm understand that excitement about the bands! We aren't buying until the summer but I had him try on a random band at Macy's once, just to see what it would look like on him lol

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Posted by Caity828

Aww Kat, don't stress about the meltdown. I tell FH at least once a week that we're in over our heads and that I want to change everything lol. I think it gives all these fiances a chance to shine and save the day, making us brides feel better. A little reminder why you want to marry him!

Congrats on the wedding band! That's so sweet!! I will be just as excited to see FHs too!

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I love that perspective!

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Posted by Chaz

Oh girl, mini meltdowns have become my friends. You'll get used to them, and FH will understand them.

Don't sweat the small stuff - everything will really fall into place! I have about three anxiety attacks a day and I just have to remind myself of what's important and that everything will get done.

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Thank you!!! That's helpful to hear! When I'm where you are in my countdown I'm sure I will just lay on the floor and cry all day haha.

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Posted by Caity828

Aww Kat, don't stress about the meltdown. I tell FH at least once a week that we're in over our heads and that I want to change everything lol. I think it gives all these fiances a chance to shine and save the day, making us brides feel better. A little reminder why you want to marry him!

Congrats on the wedding band! That's so sweet!! I will be just as excited to see FHs too!

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Very wise, Caity! :) These guys are pretty awesome. I knew I liked FH for a reason.

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Posted by coffeeisgreen

I love that you worried about your earrings matching your necklace if only because that sounds like something I'd fret over!

I'm understand that excitement about the bands! We aren't buying until the summer but I had him try on a random band at Macy's once, just to see what it would look like on him lol

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OMG the matching made me feel nuts! they are both kate spade crystal pieces but the earrings were like antiqued crystal so not 100% clear. It was making me twitchy. lol So I found what I THINK is the actual matching pair on ebay and bid on them.

congrats on the bands i'm hoping to go this weekend!

I have meltdowns almost everyday, because besides planning a wedding, that is so close, I'm starting a new job in January. So I wake up at 5am thinking how my new commute will be, what roads will I take, who will sit at what table, will I have back fat in my dress!! My brain is completely overloaded!!!

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Posted by emmac

congrats on the bands i'm hoping to go this weekend!

I have meltdowns almost everyday, because besides planning a wedding, that is so close, I'm starting a new job in January. So I wake up at 5am thinking how my new commute will be, what roads will I take, who will sit at what table, will I have back fat in my dress!! My brain is completely overloaded!!!

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I hear you! I wish life would stop for a second so I could actually enjoy this planning. And please, I'm obsessed with not having back fat in my dress. I say the phrase back fat way too much these days...

Congrats on the new job!!

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Posted by emmac

congrats on the bands i'm hoping to go this weekend!

I have meltdowns almost everyday, because besides planning a wedding, that is so close, I'm starting a new job in January. So I wake up at 5am thinking how my new commute will be, what roads will I take, who will sit at what table, will I have back fat in my dress!! My brain is completely overloaded!!!

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That's so crazy - For the past month I have been waking up at 5am sharp and worry about every wedding detail possible, wishing that vendors were open that early so I could call and ask questions. I've decided when that happens and FW is already at work, Im going to just go to the gym and try to burn off the worry. Lol

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Posted by Megglez108

So exciting! Can't believe how fast the time is going! Mike is the best...and everything does match!

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it doesnt matchhhhhhhhhhhhhh!