I just started in a new office back in Dec 2007. I have become close with some people. There is a girl that is part of the circle I click with and although she is really nice, I don't have much in common with her and it's knd of just a'hi, bye' type of thing. One of her friends who I am really close with and want as a guest kind of hinted that I should invite the 'hi, bye' girl. Honestly, I think this girl might be relieved if she wasn't invited. I hear she is cheap. But sould I invite her so it won't be awkward for me or eff it?
jaep129
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We are only inviting people we are more hi and bye with. We arent dong a B list that I know lots of people do b/c I only want my close friends/family there. Dont feel you have to invite her b/c someone is telling you to. If you really dont want her there then dont invite her!
Maria31
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Hi Date Twin!!
I say you invite who you want to invite. Don't let anyone sway your opinion. Go with your gut! GL!
megzzie
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If you feel like you are not close enough with her to invite her to your wedding, I wouldn't invite her. It sounds like you're not close with her though, if all you say is 'hi' and 'bye.'
Danielle623
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You guys are right. I wasn't going to invite her just because someone was telling me to. I might've just to keep everything not so weird. But screw it.
MJDoc12
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i always had a rule---'if i would never invite you over to my house for dinner or call you up for drinks on a wknd--we're probably not close enough to be invited to the wedding'
Mici n KC
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Don't invite her.
Danielle623
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Posted by MJDoc12
i always had a rule---'if i would never invite you over to my house for dinner or call you up for drinks on a wknd--we're probably not close enough to be invited to the wedding'
I love it.
GinaBambina08
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Posted by Danielle623
Posted by MJDoc12
i always had a rule---'if i would never invite you over to my house for dinner or call you up for drinks on a wknd--we're probably not close enough to be invited to the wedding'
I love it.
That is definitely a good rule of thumb
hannahshim
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i say go with your gut
she might feel uncomfortable/overwhelmed because she will have to give you a gift.. personally if i was your co worker i wouldnt want an invite
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Posted by WinterBride08
Posted by Danielle623
Posted by MJDoc12
i always had a rule---'if i would never invite you over to my house for dinner or call you up for drinks on a wknd--we're probably not close enough to be invited to the wedding'
I love it.
That is definitely a good rule of thumb
thats awesome and easy
I should use that too
lb9977
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Work people are tough on who to invite and not invite. I only invited 5 girls from work and they are all friends who I see outside of work - that was my criteria that way no one gets hurt at work since I only invited legitimate friends...
