got my first gift from a 'no'

got my first gift from a 'no'

so what's the consensus? do i send the TY now or after HM which means it goes out in november?

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I'm waiting and sending all mine at the same time.

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I would send it now.

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i waited... i want to send them the same ty as everyone else

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I would wait especially if you plan on sending a picture with your thank you!

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i'd send it now. I would be sort of annoyed if i got a thank you months later

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I send them as they came in!!

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I'm sending them as they come in

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I'm waiting for some of those I'm so bad!

Id wait and send them all together. I think they should understand and anticipate the wait.

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thanks ladies. i'll probably send now, so i don't forget, but assuming i can't use the mr. and mrs. ones quiet yet. oh well.

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i say now.. because its one less youll have to do later.

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I sent mine right away so they were done. I was worried I'd forget about them later on . . .

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I waited to send a thank you with the rest of them. But I also made sure my parents or IL's acknowledged the gift to the giver........'Oh yes, they got your gift but they want to wait to send you a card with a picture!' No complaints.

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Good question....I have three like this. I am thinking that I would feel better sending a thank you now. Afterall it takes months after the wedding to get your thank yous.

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Re: got my first gift from a 'no'

i cashed the check and sent a thank you right away

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I have been sending a TY card as I receive them. I def. wanted to acknowledge the gift...not wait months and then send them a TY. I also plan on sending another TY card when I have pics from the wedding.

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I sent them out now and then I am going to send out the wedding ones too after the wedding. The ones now are just on my informals. Just so people know we got the gift.

Re: got my first gift from a 'no'

If it's a gift from a 'no' like this one I would send it out now... If it's a gift from someone who is still going to be coming like we've been getting I think it's ok to do it either way.