Figured I'd post this now since I dont know what time I'll be able to tomorrow.... Take it easy on me its my first question... LoL
What makes you think that your marriage will survive where a lot of others have failed??? What makes you think that you and your FH/FW will be together for the long haul???
I know with Colleen it is that we both seem to be so compatible. We are able to talk out things where other people might not be able to. We share a lot of the same interests and our families do as well. Our families like each other very much and that can only help things in the long run...\
We also both have a good idea of what we both want in the future as far as house/children... and it just so happens we feel the same on these things...
JoanneAndJustin
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We talk. About everything. Sometimes we even yell about it, but everything important has a discussion. I know how he feels about kids, religion, education, etc. We fall the same on those 'big' items. And we complement each other. Where he's short tempered I'm relaxed, where I'm impatient he's patient, etc.
I'm only getting married once so it's important to me (and to us) that we've got a clear idea about what's going on at all times...
We enjoy the same things. He listens to my stories... and we respect one another.
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i think we compliment eachother well. there are ways that we are very similar and other ways that we are very different but it helps us become stronger. i think we are there for eachother and we appreciate eachother.
its been almost 3 years and when i am away from him for a night it feels like an eternity. i cant wait to come home just to see him. alot of people lose those 'new' feelings after a few months. i still get those with him
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I think for the simple fact that we have gone though so much together in the 5 years we have been together. We have gone though things most people dont go though at all. It makes you see how they would feel or re-act to things.
Also I think that we know just about everything about eachother. We dont hide things at all have have been that way since the start. We may not like things that we do but we have dealt with it and have grown to be ok with them.
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i think Jackie hit the nail on the head with her response, i totally agree with every word she said. but i would liek to add that if NOTHING else... i couldnt go back to where i was before her. i could never go back to being miserable. not after having hapiness like this.
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I can't imagine my life without FH. Even when we argue and we do argue a lot I know he'll always be there. Our fights never last more than a few minutes. We both share the same dreams for our future.
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Me and FH mesh well together, we are very different people and function very well apart from each other, but once we are together we just blend perfectly. He is the one person that i just never get sick of, I just crave being around him and after 4 years it still hasn't changed. Even when we argue, he is the one person i can't stay mad at. And he still gives me butterflies.
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FH & i have been together for 8 & a half years. we have been living together for almost 3 years & i think that we fit together very well. we have been through a lot of hard times & have always made it through. we work together really well & we both want the same things out of life. we have spent years & years getting our relationship to where it is. we continue to work things out together. and most importantly we both know that a marriage takes work, it doesn’t just work on its own.
CloudNine
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Posted by T E R I
Me and FH mesh well together, we are very different people and function very well apart from each other, but once we are together we just blend perfectly. He is the one person that i just never get sick of, I just crave being around him and after 4 years it still hasn't changed. Even when we argue, he is the one person i can't stay mad at. And he still gives me butterflies.
aww teri i liked your answer. i cant wait to meet daryn
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Posted by CloudNine
Posted by T E R I
Me and FH mesh well together, we are very different people and function very well apart from each other, but once we are together we just blend perfectly. He is the one person that i just never get sick of, I just crave being around him and after 4 years it still hasn't changed. Even when we argue, he is the one person i can't stay mad at. And he still gives me butterflies.
aww teri i liked your answer. i cant wait to meet daryn
Thanks Jackie, when people first meet him they are usually kind of awwed on how we are together because of how we interact and how i will be his interpreter for him without even thinking about it. I guess its just the little things that you do that you don't realize you do, until people point them out
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Tom and I are the same person basically.. when im not with him its like half of me is missing. we cant live without each other. he is the person i think about every second of the day... i put him first.. always and i can say he does the same for me. we can complete each others sentences and have an understanding of what the other person is feeling without even having a conversation. theres no guessing or games when it comes to us. we talk about everything... he knows everything there is to know about me and i always tell him he knows me better than i know myself. we're just two peas in a pod
good question Brian!!!
CloudNine
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Tom and I are the same person basically.. when im not with him its like half of me is missing. we cant live without each other. he is the person i think about every second of the day... i put him first.. always and i can say he does the same for me. we can complete each others sentences and have an understanding of what the other person is feeling without even having a conversation. theres no guessing or games when it comes to us. we talk about everything... he knows everything there is to know about me and i always tell him he knows me better than i know myself. we're just two peas in a pod
good question Brian!!!
i feel the same way about you danielle...that's why you and i are getting married
MrsC2010
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I think FH and I really compliment each other in certain ways. We also have very similar goals in life. After being together 5 1/2 years and living together almost 2 years....we have learned a lot about each other and our relationship has grown stronger. We talk things out a lot. We are both extremely secure in our relationship...we aren't jealous or controlling of one another. We love every minute that we are together...but that doesn't mean we can't do things on our own. I know FH would do anything for me and I can't imagine my life without him:)
DnT2010
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Posted by CloudNine
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Tom and I are the same person basically.. when im not with him its like half of me is missing. we cant live without each other. he is the person i think about every second of the day... i put him first.. always and i can say he does the same for me. we can complete each others sentences and have an understanding of what the other person is feeling without even having a conversation. theres no guessing or games when it comes to us. we talk about everything... he knows everything there is to know about me and i always tell him he knows me better than i know myself. we're just two peas in a pod
good question Brian!!!
i feel the same way about you danielle...that's why you and i are getting married
rocketsummer17
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Good first question bri, better not slack off on the other ones lol
Shawn and I have been through ALOT of things over the past five years...By going through all of that together it really helped us grow up and grow together as a couple. We got to see how the other person would handle different situations and how we felt about situations. We have also been very honest and upfront about everything since day one, and although we might argue about our opinions or disagree about them, we respect that the other person was able to be 100% honest with the other...I can honestly say he means more to me than just a best friend or FH, he really is my rock and without him a part of me would be missing.
