Great advice from FH's friend

runnerbride1023 Posted: Apr 19, 2010 02:33 PM

Great advice from FH's friend

One of FH's friends said this to him this weekend:

'Dude, no one told me this before I got married, and we've been friends since we are little so I need to make sure you do not make the same mistake, do not get married. stay single' There was no joking involved, he was completely serious.

Of course FH told me this and we both agree that he got married to have a big party all about him (the wedding was alll about him, I knew their marriage would be the same way).

but even knowing the kind of person he is, really, is it necessary to tell FH not to get married.

AngnShaun Posted: Apr 19, 2010 02:34 PM

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thats not surprising... lots of guys feel that way...

jmgoncal Posted: Apr 19, 2010 02:35 PM

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What an @ss

NewYorker09 Posted: Apr 19, 2010 02:36 PM

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That's a really awesome 'friend'. I wonder how much longer he's going to be 'married'.

SoonToBeMrsCampos Posted: Apr 19, 2010 02:38 PM

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***!!! I smell divorce..

GiannisWifey Posted: Apr 19, 2010 02:39 PM

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sounds like a winner to me!

BLBride Posted: Apr 19, 2010 02:44 PM

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I mean, that is just an absurd thing to say to someone - I don't care if you're engaged, married, single. Keep it to yourself.

Lisalana Posted: Apr 19, 2010 02:51 PM

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a client of mine told me that at dinner a few months ago. she said 'here's some advice - don't get married'. i just don't understand people sometimes.

regy_k Posted: Apr 19, 2010 02:54 PM

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hearing ppl say this shyt really makes my blood boil
just b/c they are unhappy they want the entire world to be miserable with them

what an azz!

ETA: what did ur FH say to him in return?

christine2010 Posted: Apr 19, 2010 03:05 PM

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FH & I heard a lot of that this past weekend at our seperate b-parties.

Some people are just so strange. Just because you are unhappy in the decisions you made doesn't mean that everyone else is going to be unhappy.

SoonToBMrsC Posted: Apr 19, 2010 03:17 PM

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some guys are A-holes!

*edited* to add the word 'some' lol.

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Apr 19, 2010 03:19 PM

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Misery loves company. Just let it roll off your back...allowing yourself to think about it is, essentially, allowing him to win to some extent.

runnerbride1023 Posted: Apr 19, 2010 03:24 PM

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FH said he looked at him and said Okkk, I think I'm going to stick with getting married.

when his friend got married he thought he was getting one thing and ended up getting something else.

He also told FH he plans on traveling the world, alone, sans wife...

MrsC2010 Posted: Apr 19, 2010 03:25 PM

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wow thats so rude

FutureMrsSoltan Posted: Apr 19, 2010 04:21 PM

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Whats with guys and that saying ???

your not cool by saying that !!

mariedsgn Posted: Apr 19, 2010 04:23 PM

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what an @ss

halfbaked Posted: Apr 19, 2010 04:24 PM

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canmigs Posted: Apr 19, 2010 06:14 PM

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We both hear stupid comments like that all the time!! Makes you just shake your head!

whispersamethyst Posted: Apr 19, 2010 06:19 PM

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Just about all of FH's friends said the same thing to him. It's a guy thing I think. They're just a bunch of idiots that think because they have such lousy relationships that ALL relationships are doomed to fail.