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Great Weekend + Checks+ FMIL trying to F* everything

VCanizalez Posted:

Great Weekend + Checks+ FMIL trying to F* everything

CHICAS!!!
HOLAAAAAAAA
How are you my lovely brideS? Hows everyhing??!!

I miss you a lot!!!

I had an amazing Weekend!!!! =-) I had so many things done & enjoy wth my FH!!!
So here's a recap of what happened + Some Checks + the story how my FMIL is trying to fkd up my happiness now...


Thursday:
Had an AMAZING time in Lindsay's Wedding with my LIW girls!!! We had a blast! We Drank n Dance!! It was amazing! Girls I had sch a great time with all of u!!!!!
Lindsay look BEAUTIFUL!!!!!

Friday:
I didnt go to work =-) I had Bfast with FH.. Then we went to the Marriot since I wanted to get the Suite for the day before my wedding & the day of (to get ready) and O M G they were chargin me $600!!!! That is not what I had a mind.. So i left

Then I decided to go n check out the Hilton.. and OMG I felt in love wiht it and it is under my budget ofr the hotel $250!!!!! and the Bridal Suite has an amazing decor taht i loveee!!!
Soo Check! I got the hotel!!!!! =)

Then Remember my Videographer problem? So I spoke to Ariana's Manager bc I really wanted to take videographer out and Tony (manager) He apologized SOOO MANY TIMES and told me to RELAX HE WILL FIX this PROBLEM for me.. Any little problem/concern I have to TALK to him.. that IM his family & he will do ANYTHIGN to make my day amazing...
and VOILA! He did! I got the Videographer calling me the next day ti apologize for his behavior & I got like a $300 off the price he had given me!
So CHECK! I got My Videographer now come to my House & to the Loc we are going for Wdding Pictures!!!!!!

So THEN we went to our Photography/Limosine vendors (they are the same) and We got SOO many Checks done:
We Pay for our Second Photographer (1:00-9:00pm he will come to Luis's location) then we added 2hrs (1:00-11:00) for my photographer
But We realize it was not enough since obv the Bride needs more time to get ready... So They GAVE US FOR FREE ANOTHER HOUR!!!! So now I have my Photographer from 12:00-11:00!!!!!
Then We upgrade our limo so Excursion 14Ps and added 1.5hrs xtra. We also have a Town car to take us back to our house afte the wedding.

Oh we also paid for the upghrade we did of the Story book Bridal Album with Coverama!!!


Then I went to see Yuleisy's Wedding.. and It was amazing! I got extra ideas for my wedding too Hope Yulie doesnt mind.. ill ask her and She invited me to come to her wedding too with my FH!! Luis & I were more than EXCITEd to go share their special day & we had Fun! We left til like 2:00am!!!
hiswife2011 Look amazing!!!!!!!!! muy Hermosa!


Sunday:
Luis worked but I went to run.. =-) i ran for like 45min!! Im getting stronger now. I use to run 30min now i can do 45!!!!

TODAY:
I spoke Stefanie(the lady who will throw me the Bridal Shower) and told me to Give her the list of the 30girls I want to invite to my Bridal Shower because SHE WILL DO EVERYHGING! She doesnt want me to know ANY DETAILS OF IT!!! She will plan Everthing for me!!!
The only thing I have to do is
SHOW UP TO MY OWN BRIDAL SHOWER!!!!
She wants everything to be a SURPRISE or me!!!
THANK GOD! Omg I am sooo blessed!!!!

Now How is my FMIL f* It everything?.... Well this is why...
I texted her bc I need the information of 2 Luis' Aunts (their phn #)... and this is our conver:
Her: 'I dont know if they can come at Ur party... their schedule is hectic'
Me: 'Well I dont know the date but its a Sunday.. She wants to do a surprise So i wont know anything.. Not sure if i will knwo the date But all I know is taht it will be in July'
Her: 'Oh July? well on July Ill be on vacation too So maybe i cant even come'
Me:'ohh ok No problem, What a shame but its ok. Thank u and have a great day'
What a stupidddd (*#$@&%*@#$* SHE WILL NOT COME TO MY BRIDAL SHOWER?!!! THE MIL WILL NOT COME??/ and Luis' Aunts CANNOT MAKE IT BC OF THEIR SCHEUDLE??? I DONT EVEN KNOW THE DATEE!!!!!!


But Im RELAX (surprisingly) Bc i think I dont care!!!
IF you wanna come to my bridal shower (which is UR sons too!!!) then come, If not then OH WELL I dont need ya!!!


WELL hope ALL of You had a GREAT Weekedn!!!

mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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wow, sounds like a really fun weekend minus the FMIL monster! but you're right, if she makes it she makes it, if not, maybe its better that you don't have to see a sour face
rosatemp Posted:

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im so happy for all your checks and that you squared away your photographer issue!!!

i am so sorry that you have to deal with your fmil being so nutty....maybe luis should have a talk with her...i would let him know what took place...shes not right and being that your so sweet you def dont deserve that at all!!!

maybe he needs to have the mom cut the cord talk and get over it

love you V
merelynn10 Posted:

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You got so much stuff done!!!!

VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by rosatemp



im so happy for all your checks and that you squared away your photographer issue!!!

i am so sorry that you have to deal with your fmil being so nutty....maybe luis should have a talk with her...i would let him know what took place...shes not right and being that your so sweet you def dont deserve that at all!!!

maybe he needs to have the mom cut the cord talk and get over it

love you V



he did! and that is why she behaves like that...
she sees that Luis stands up for me and is 'on my side' (sort of speak)...


Luis had a BIG argument with her but she wont stop... He has talked to her MANY tmes & she dot get it!!!

Luis reply to me on a text msge when i told hm waht happened
'Nena is ok.. wow i cant believe.. Dont worry its YOU and ME forever... NOT them'
cuz i told him NOT to 'beg' her to come
rosatemp Posted:

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im glad he sticks up for you...his mom needs to get over herself and if she dont come fudge it you dont need her and he is right its all bout you and him...

VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by rosatemp

im glad he sticks up for you...his mom needs to get over herself and if she dont come fudge it you dont need her and he is right its all bout you and him...



Yes Thank God luis is always sticking for me...
TRUST ME.. He is...
Otherwise I will NOT be with him...
If i would tell U what his MIL have done to me/have said to me.. u will be like

rosatemp Posted:

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why is she so evil...is it cause she is one of those crazy moms who thinks once the son gets married she loses him forever?? i hate moms who cant let go of their sons its like give me a break they have to get on with their lives

pjc92980 Posted:

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wow you had a great weekend...congrats on all the checks!

I am glad you arent letting FMIL get to you...mine said the same thing about my shower 'ughh we have to have a shower for her' and she said that right in front of me! So FH wrote her an email basically saying he expects her to be there on whatever the date is and to just keep quiet and put on a happy face.
honestly though, i would rather her not come!!!


we cant let them bother us...we are better than them
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by rosatemp

why is she so evil...is it cause she is one of those crazy moms who thinks once the son gets married she loses him forever?? i hate moms who cant let go of their sons its like give me a break they have to get on with their lives





Eck.. I cant stand her!
We have SO many argyments...
IF luis wouldnt stand up for me, I told Luis i would have broke up the engagement n our relations...
Once in Xmas I almost did it...
It was REALLY bad...

Bug she is one fo those mom who doesnt want his son to get marry... who wants his son at home (Mind u Luis has been living by himself now for like 6-7yrs!!!)
IrishAli Posted:

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Sounds like a productive weekend with just a little FMIL hiccup

VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by pjc92980

wow you had a great weekend...congrats on all the checks!

I am glad you arent letting FMIL get to you...mine said the same thing about my shower 'ughh we have to have a shower for her' and she said that right in front of me! So FH wrote her an email basically saying he expects her to be there on whatever the date is and to just keep quiet and put on a happy face.
honestly though, i would rather her not come!!!


we cant let them bother us...we are better than them

.

I KNWO RIT!!!!!

My FH have FOUGHT with her for so long...
But now im like 'FK IT! I DONT GIVE A &$*(#&$*(#' I DONT EVEN WATN HER THERE!'


VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by IrishAli

Sounds like a productive weekend with just a little FMIL hiccup





Lol
'FMIL hiccup'
HSsweethearts Posted:

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WOW! Awesome weekend, V! I'm so glad that the video worked out. Sounds great!


Wow, why is FMIL being a bish? Don't worry, you will have an awesome time with or without her! There were only 3 people from FH's family at my shower, but you know what, I had a great time.
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by HSsweethearts

WOW! Awesome weekend, V! I'm so glad that the video worked out. Sounds great!


Wow, why is FMIL being a bish? Don't worry, you will have an awesome time with or without her! There were only 3 people from FH's family at my shower, but you know what, I had a great time.



I know I had SUCH a great weekend! Im happy!

She is always a bic#t!...

I literaly DONT care if they come...
I just feel bad for FH bc his family is acting like 'whatever'.. So he feels bad and i know it...

I WILL HAVE A GREAT TIME

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