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Groom losing job

Newsysuzy12 Posted:

Groom losing job

There has been a bit of sad news on the board this weekend along with all the happy.
I found out Friday night that my groom is going to be losing his job. The situation could be worse, it looks like he will get some sort of a buyout, including benefits for a time. There is also some chance he could be rehired in a different division.
While we knew cuts were coming, to be honest I thought he would be safe. He is the hardest working person I ever met, I have never seen anybody put their heart into their job like he does.
To make matters worse, about a fifth of the people who have RSVP'ed for the California reception are losing their jobs as well.
Besides the fact that we are now spending a bunch of money while the future is uncertain, I have other concerns as well.
I really don't want our NY reception on 7/26 to become all about my family saying' what are you gonna do?' to him. When you are unemployed the questions can get tiring really fast.
I am even a bit concerned our 9/20 west coast reception will also turn into a bit of a pity party. Many years ago I was part of a mass layoff, and any time you get together with your former co-workers it is time to vent.
We will be ok, and this may even put a welcome end to our bi-coastal lifestyle, but the timing of this is kind of distressing. I kind of think it is going to put a pall over the festivities.
IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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Im sorry to hear about your FH loosing his job My FH lost his job in the beginning of May and no job yet. The economy freakin s u c ks right now. Its good that he is getting a buyout so at least he gets something.
JodyLC Posted:

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Sorry to hear about that the economy *****!!!! I know I lost mine in April and still nothing!!!

Newsysuzy12 Posted:

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so sorry to hear that...the timing is unfortunate. I'll send you a bit of job dust!

SparkyandAng Posted:

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I totally understand and I'm sorry. I originally thought I'd be unemployed by August...and I've only been there 3 years so i would only get 8 weeks severance, but as it turned out I should be working through the end of the year but commuting 12 miles each way further (already commute 29 miles each way).

I tried to do the whole 'everything happens for a reason' which I do really believe, but it didn't stop the panic of spending all this money.

good luck!!!!
JodyLC Posted:

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OOOO JOB DUST!!! I could use it I am going about a job tomorrow it is not one i want but it's a job!!! and I NEED it I have 76 days and ALOT of wedding stuff to finish!!!

DiamondPipa Posted:

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I'm so sorry about your FH losing his job....I really hope he finds something better and more secure....my fiance lost his job the week of Thanksgiving and ended up starting a new job the monday right after thanksgiving...it's a much better job and now he has a more promising future. I hope everything works out!!!!

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