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grooms cake?

jesca Posted:

grooms cake?

how large should a grooms cake be? and if you get a grooms cake, does that mean your regular wedding cake should be smaller? i'm saving up to hopefully get that ace of cakes guy to do FH's grooms cake as a surprise, but its going to cost quite a lot. good thing i've got time to save.

rmsgirl Posted:

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I ordered a groom's cake for the dinner we had the night before the wedding. I thought it would be overkill at the wedding, because our guests were already getting wedding cake and a dessert plate.

I got a chocolate cake with oreo filling from Audrey's. I think I paid $100 and it fed more than 50 people and we had leftovers.

If you are going to do a special, over the top, cake, why not have it at the rehearsal dinner? It will stand out there more than at the wedding (with everything else going on) and it will cost you a lot less.

Just an idea.

By the way, I LOVE that show!
tcotier Posted:

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Just a thought, but have you considered a cigar bar for ur FH? My fiance saw one on 'My Big Fat Fabulous Wedding' and he's been talking about it ever since. I asked if he would want a grooms cake, and he said no b/c we're having viennese hour and he thought it was dessert overkill, so i'm surprising him with the Cigar Bar. I know he's going to flip when he sees it.. from what I've read on here most men go nuts for this stuff. Not sure how much cakes run, but cigar bars go from $450-$1000 depending on who you go with.

jesca Posted:

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Posted by tcotier

Just a thought, but have you considered a cigar bar for ur FH? My fiance saw one on 'My Big Fat Fabulous Wedding' and he's been talking about it ever since. I asked if he would want a grooms cake, and he said no b/c we're having viennese hour and he thought it was dessert overkill, so i'm surprising him with the Cigar Bar. I know he's going to flip when he sees it.. from what I've read on here most men go nuts for this stuff. Not sure how much cakes run, but cigar bars go from $450-$1000 depending on who you go with.



we're straight edge, so we dont drink or smoke. but thanks for the idea
Tori9299 Posted:

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Posted by rmsgirl

If you are going to do a special, over the top, cake, why not have it at the rehearsal dinner? It will stand out there more than at the wedding (with everything else going on) and it will cost you a lot less.

Just an idea.

By the way, I LOVE that show!



I agree, that's what I plan on doing.
mRm2008 Posted:

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I am doing our groom's cake at RD and not reception. I think it will be really cute and an appropriate design for the amount of people attending!

I am getting him the golf bag
jesca Posted:

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Posted by mRm2008

I am doing our groom's cake at RD and not reception. I think it will be really cute and an appropriate design for the amount of people attending!

I am getting him the golf bag



what bakery are you using? couldnt hurt to see if they could do the cake i want
mRm2008 Posted:

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Ours is taking place in PA, but feel free to use the photos if you like!!!

ANT-N-BON-09 Posted:

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love the idea, i am doing it. He is getting a dart board, he is on a league.

yngcpl92203 Posted:

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Posted by mRm2008

I am doing our groom's cake at RD and not reception. I think it will be really cute and an appropriate design for the amount of people attending!

I am getting him the golf bag



Wow. those are beautiful
PegaLega Posted:

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I think the grooms cake is for the RD not the reception...but not sure

diva7531 Posted:

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Posted by PegaLega

I think the grooms cake is for the RD not the reception...but not sure



You can do either, in the south it is traditionally at the wedding, but practicality has taken over and we tend to do it at the RD here.
InezandBrody Posted:

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I think i'm going to do the Grooms Cake at the RD as well. FH is really into space and astronomy so i was thinking maybe a space shuttle
LittlePup34 Posted:

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i want to do one of these also i just sent you fm

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