grooms cake

I think sometimes the groom's family feels like the groom gets lost and forgotten about. Maybe that's her concern?

It's funny because my FILs are the opposite. They can't see why I'd spend money on a limobus when my friend has a perfectly good van parked right outside. Either way, you just can't win.

I know the feeling, when people ask me if I'm having certain things at the wedding and I say no, they act like the world is going to come to an end. Unless they plan on paying for all th extra little stuff they need to shut up and mind their business

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Posted by Lsorrent




I think sometimes the groom's family feels like the groom gets lost and forgotten about. Maybe that's her concern?

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i wish that was the case.
fh is very involved in this wedding.
fmil knows hes in charge of the filling for our cake.

i dont know. maybe im just being grumpy

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Posted by Rosalind_75

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Posted by Lsorrent




I think sometimes the groom's family feels like the groom gets lost and forgotten about. Maybe that's her concern?

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i wish that was the case.
fh is very involved in this wedding.
fmil knows hes in charge of the filling for our cake.

i dont know. maybe im just being grumpy

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You are not being grumpy....

FMIL's have a way of trying to get their way.....

i hate people who always have something to sayyyyy!!

aw sorry she's being a pain but it comes down to doing what you want!

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Posted by cateydee

she'll get over it. i like the idea of the grooms cake at the RD because at the wedding it might be kinda hectic and everyone might not see it. the RD's more intimate and everyone will be able to see it and taste it!

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ITA!!!

If she is so hell bent on having a 'Groom's Cake' Just tell her no problem. Than give her your bakers info, tell her to pick the cake she likes, PAY FOR IT, & arrange to have it delivered to the CH in time for the wedding.

omg i completely understand how u feel! i'm constantly getting from FMIL about wedding costs and ideas....registry items....almost everything really! i'm not even going to tell her about the grooms cake i'm going to be getting for fh bc i just KNOW that i'd have to get a or from her......stay strong girl!!!!