grooms on LIW

i think it is so cute that some of the grooms have their own chat names and use LIW. FH said to me the other night that he wished he had a site to talk about the wedding w guys so i told him that there are and he can make a screenname and chat on here but he acted like i was being silly.

should i just make a name for him so he can use it if he wants? or should i let him do it if he feels like it and stay out of it?

I dont know if FH would do it, he has his own messageboards he is addicted to, lol.

if your FH would like to , that would be great. im sure it would be fun to have a guys perspective for a change. it might be easier if he made his name something that identifies him as a groom so we know hes not a bride!

well he would chat on the grooms board...not on here...

so we wouldn't even see him!!

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Posted by Kimbalina

There is the stealthgroom, that post i think on the 2007, BHB and grooms board... so i he decides to join, you never know he could be on here

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you know, that makes me realize something...if he joins then he'll check my profile and see pics of my dress and everything. i don't want to have to take my pics down.

ok that settles it. he's not allowed!!

My FH comes on here all the time as me to see what new and exciting...he responds to you guys sometimes, lol. He doesn't want his own screenname though.
That's why I don't really have any pics of my dress on here - I know he's sneaky and he would find it.

FH admitted to me he looked under the grooms section once.

I would just let him do it.. if he chooses too.

I think it is really cute too.. because its other peoples FH's haha

but honestly if FH got an SN on here and chatted about wedding stuff.. i'd be concerned.. i would make fun of him.. !! this is the girls thing... i like him wanting to be a part of it.. but chatting on LIW about it... is another story!!! JMO

Let me have LIW he can keep his Stangnet.com !!!!

I dont want my FH doin it.....all hed do is search to see what Im up to on here....

and then hell see how i really feel about his mom..

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Posted by jgl

but honestly if FH got an SN on here and chatted about wedding stuff.. i'd be concerned.. i would make fun of him.. !! this is the girls thing... i like him wanting to be a part of it.. but chatting on LIW about it... is another story!!! JMO

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Terrible double-standard but I feel the exact same way!! And if he did do it, I'd totally 'out' him to his friends after a few drinks!

He doesn't even have a myspace so I'm not even remotely worried about it!

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

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Posted by jgl

but honestly if FH got an SN on here and chatted about wedding stuff.. i'd be concerned.. i would make fun of him.. !! this is the girls thing... i like him wanting to be a part of it.. but chatting on LIW about it... is another story!!! JMO

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Terrible double-standard but I feel the exact same way!! And if he did do it, I'd totally 'out' him to his friends after a few drinks!

He doesn't even have a myspace so I'm not even remotely worried about it!

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good its not just me !! YAH!! hehe

Yeah FH doesnt have a myspace either.. i keep trying to get him to start one but he wont.

Well i am lying because he did open one but he just checks peoples profiles... like Jim Norton from O&A, His Only friend is TOM and nothing is filled in. I sent him a couple friends requests... and he WON'T add me.. I hate him!!!

I'd say let him do it.. but at least you put the right idea in his head about it...

I didnt even offer one to my FH,, he likes to drop comments to me to put in but,, I like this for me...
I know it sounds selfish- but I dont want him seeing what I am planning on here!