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GROOMSMEN GRIEF!!!

xbutrflykissesx Posted:

GROOMSMEN GRIEF!!!

Ok so quick story that i need some advice on! so i have 5 BM's all family except one best friend since we were 2. FH has 4 GM we thought he would have 5 but his brother moved back to Chile last december :(.. anyways FH has my brother as the best man.. and 3 friends, 1 of which is one of my family friends for years since i was 2 and FHs good friend(mike). well mike has a brother who is also our friend (john). FH hangs out with the 1 brother more (Mike, he is the one already in the bridal party) and from the begining when we got engaged i told FH you should also put (John-mikes brother) in, yes, FH hangs more with Mike but FH has been away with both guys and their dad and on numberous fishing trips with both guys!! John comes to every event and gives claudio a birthday gift every year!..now our wedding is 11-6-11 and FH says 'idk hun should i put john in the BP?' UHM REALLY??? ive only been saying it for the past year!!! and plus we could use another guy!! and i love john! idk..girls is it too late to ask john to be in our BP?? PLEASE HELP!
Moonmist09 Posted:

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its definately not too late, add him!

xbutrflykissesx Posted:

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yea?? i just feel weird cuz we already asked his brother..and now we are asking him?? how can we ask? we can say that we thought FH's brother would be coming in from Chile and now he cant and we would like him to be in the BP? what do u think?

ColliMac23 Posted:

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Not at all! Add him@

rosatemp Posted:

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Posted by Moonmist09

its definately not too late, add him!



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justnicethings Posted:

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definitely add him, and if you feel like you need to explain why it's late, your reason is perfect. you were keeping it to 5, and since the brother can't be there, he's the perfect person to fill the spot!

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