Here's the deal. My sister is my MOH and his sister is my Bridesmaid. He has 5 guys. A little lopsided.....? If that's not bad enough. My mom is getting upset b/c she wants my cousin (who I grew up w/ but have been growing apart) in his party. Problem is.... they rarely see each other, and when they DO see each other, they barely talk. My Aunt (mom's sister) even said that my cousin would not be interested, he'd probably want to watch from the 'sidelines'. What should I do?
dream426
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I don't think you should ask if you don't want to. His mom is even saying he won't be interested so there is your answer. If they hardly talk and hardly see each other then I don't see why you would have to ask him. You guys aren't that close anymore. Its really up to you but I don't think you are wrong if you don't ask him.
angl2001
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sweetie, its your wedding do what you want! or do what i do....when somone says ' i want you to do this.....' tell them 'ok r paying for the wedding??' lol thats been shutting people up lately!
love2plan1
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I agree, I mean its your wedding. I don't think you guys should ask ppl you do not necessarily want in your wedding. It is a special occasion and those ppl are supposed to be your bm's and groomsmen for a reason.
Good luck
dangell427
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to be tottaly honest...your mom doesn`t have a choice in this. it`s your wedding. you do what you want. i am having my FH have my bro in the bridal party but they are close and it was my choice not anyone elses so really....it`s up to you!
