My FH is so damn picky!! We started looking at dresses and colors and he doesnt like ANYTHING!! He's starting to annoy me lol!! Anyone else have a groomzilla??
FutureMcBride
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omg I have one. He said from the beginning to just tell him where and when to show up but now he is the one with all of the demands!!!!
He is insisting on:
A Viennese hour a cigar roller
hmmm can't think of anything else right now but he is definitely groomzilla!
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lol my FH would like the dessert n cigars, however he is more budget conscience than I am he is absolutely against plum being our color, since my dress is gold I think it would go, but I don't want to tell him that!
FutureMrsGTL
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FH isnt groomzilla.. hes budgetzilla lol but someone needs to be aware of what were spending!
FutureWifey
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FH started out as groomzilla, but then he made me cry a lot because it was just too much pressure between my mother, fmil, fh, moh, and a bm., jr bm's, aunts, friends, coworkers, etc. i think if my dog could talk, she would give her input too. but! after telling people their suggestions will be taken into consideration and being called a bridezilla, i think he realized he needed to back up and give me room to think about the whole picture. hopefully your fh will do the same.
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Posted by Ernial63012
My FH is so damn picky!! We started looking at dresses and colors and he doesnt like ANYTHING!! He's starting to annoy me lol!! Anyone else have a groomzilla??
Not to laugh at your situation, but groomzilla is really funny!
Sco2Sko
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Ok so no Groomzilla over here....not yet anyway.....
Ernial63012
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At first he said all he was gonna handle was the church part since were getting married in his church. Then i went to pick up my BM dress for a friends wedding and brought him home color swatches and a book of dresses. He went through and said 'oh they cant wear that style, I hate that material, i hate that length, ....' so basically the girls have 1 type of dress. Meanwhile we both agreed at first since it we had girls of all shapes and heights we were gonna pick a length and color and let them pick the style so they wuold feel comfortable. I think i'm gonna pick the ugliest dress and send a picture of them in it so he can go back to our original idea lol, I cant wait to see what else he becomes a groomzilla about
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Good luck with that!! lol My FH and I were watching 'Say yes to the dress' and in a couple different episodes they had brought their finance....well, needless to say, he now wants to go dress shopping with me. He said, 'Don't worry, just make sure you don't tell me when you found THE ONE' I was like, are you kidding me?? I'm sure I won't be able to hide the tears or the kool aid smile!
Not sure how to say no on this because he has in fact brought it up several times in the last couple days and is getting excited about it......men!
Just gotta look on the bright side....if he didn't want to be involved at all, then we would be moaning about that. I 'think' I really love the fact that he's into planning and helping. So far.....but, it only the beginning......
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Mine has actually sent me pics of dresses he likes!
Hes a big ole pain. He decided on a RH and wont budge. Came up w a list of his own of 226 people which i am not on. And...insists on having a transformers theme.
Groomzilla all the way!
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Posted by Ernial63012
At first he said all he was gonna handle was the church part since were getting married in his church. Then i went to pick up my BM dress for a friends wedding and brought him home color swatches and a book of dresses. He went through and said 'oh they cant wear that style, I hate that material, i hate that length, ....' so basically the girls have 1 type of dress. Meanwhile we both agreed at first since it we had girls of all shapes and heights we were gonna pick a length and color and let them pick the style so they wuold feel comfortable. I think i'm gonna pick the ugliest dress and send a picture of them in it so he can go back to our original idea lol, I cant wait to see what else he becomes a groomzilla about
Ern I love you!!! LoL! He is being a total groomzilla! You're not alone there are plenty of brides on here with Groomzillas haha! So what colors does he like? the blues you mentioned yesterday?
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lol you have no idea what a pain he's being!! Were undecided between Oasis, Cornflower and Pool. We wanna go look at the vests at Mens Warehouse first to see the patterns hopefully that will help make the decision!
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lol you have no idea what a pain he's being!! Were undecided between Oasis, Cornflower and Pool. We wanna go look at the vests at Mens Warehouse first to see the patterns hopefully that will help make the decision!
In person, they look much different! For a summer wedding, I think cornflower is the one I was originally looking at (before I changed my colors). Men are so frustrating! What happened to the 'just tell me where to show up' attitude?
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I dont want to jinx myself but so far so good and we only have a few more checks to go on the list...
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Posted by allornil
Mine has actually sent me pics of dresses he likes!
Hes a big ole pain. He decided on a RH and wont budge. Came up w a list of his own of 226 people which i am not on. And...insists on having a transformers theme.
Groomzilla all the way!
transformers theme!!!!
I am waiting for mine to tell me he wants Spongbob...
bella_bride
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He was a little in the beginning, but when he realized it's my way or else, he stopped!
DCgirl82
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lol you have no idea what a pain he's being!! Were undecided between Oasis, Cornflower and Pool. We wanna go look at the vests at Mens Warehouse first to see the patterns hopefully that will help make the decision!
All of those Blues are really pretty!! Keep me posted! and let me know if you need any help planning <3 LOVE YOU!!!
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Def do like me tell them nothing, only when to show up!!! Otherwise it takes way to long to make decisions, someone ends up crying (me), and it takes days to get my way!!!!
Soon2BMrsErichsen
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Text from FH today: 'I tried dabbling in wedding plans today, but I didn't know where to start. I would like to take some of the pressure off your shoulders, ya know? So, what do you need me to do?'
My response...'awww....thank you babe, but I'll let you know when I need something. Can you stop by your moms and tell her that we're not getting married in church? That would be a GREAT help!'
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Since we are both paying for everything, he has a say. There were things I never thought he would care about and then there was things he could care less.
