I would have never thought that my fh was the one that dreamt of a big wedding and my type dress and how i should have MY hair etc ect. I dont know what im going to do with him
beautyq115
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I answered yes as a joke...some of the things he has really gotten into such as the china which he didn't want at first and then we fought about it....
Goldi1021
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FH is very involved. Sometimes too involved. Everything is a project to manage with a chart. He makes columns and charts and graphs and I want to scream sometimes. This is the first wedding in his family and the fourth in mine. I could do this in my sleep and he analyzes things to death. I already warned him that he is not coming to the florist. A while back he had gone to a party at a catering hall on LI and had to call me to tell me that the seats were filthy and if we ever got married there we'd have to get seat covers. Then when we decided on a Temple wedding, he made sure the caterer offered intermezzo between courses. Men should not think about these things. I have a true metrosexual groomzilla. When he gets back from his pedicure, I'll show him this post
SweetCin704
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FH is involved with things like the hall & the band, but he's stepping off on things like my dress & the girls' dresses & flowers...
july06bride
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i think being involved and being a groomzilla are different... FH is involved in the wedding planning but defintely not a groomzilla. he leaves the ZILLA part to me
SIBride06
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Oh no way.. Not mine at all!!!! Hes looking forward to the honeymoon the most . Better off anyway.. less confusion!
cindyandkevin
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My FH is involved, but certainly not a Groomzilla. He's made a few 'must' requests but pretty much everything I want is 'fine'!!
sarahthegreat
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he's involved b/c its his wedding too and there are decisions that i won't make w/o him, hall, photographer, etc. but he won't pick my dress or the bm's dresses - and its not something he has an interest in anyway
ElegantBride
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The reason I am not a Bridezilla is because my FH is so helpful and as equally as organized as me. He is so helpful and involved in planning...not to the point of groomzilla.
serendipity0680
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I answered yes because my FH is particular about certain aspects of the wedding and wanting everything to go perfectly.