GRR!!! venting!
hi guys! i'm new here.. .i introduced myself on the lurkers come out post a couple weeks ago.
anyway... i just need to vent. i have sort of a love-hate relationship with my 'friend' ' sally'. sally and i were best friends in high school and lived together for 3 years of college. thats when the problems started. she would do little things that would annoy me and build up and cause arguments. it got even worse the second year we lived together and i started dating my now FH. she can't stand him, and made it VERY clear- to the point of her saying to me right in front of him ' melissa, i always wanted you to date so-and-so'. so whatever.
SOO.. she got engaged and about 6 months into the wedding planning asked me to be in it. i agreed, because we have been through a lot together. the wedding was in july. when she got her proofs back from her photographer she had me over to look at them. there were 2 that i wanted, but since they were $15 each, i told her i would think about it. the next day i e-mailed her and told her that i did want them and to order them for me and i would get her the money. she never got back to me until about a week later. the e-mail said ' i NEED to fax the order to the photographer this morning, so i need to know now if you want those pictures. mind you this was a work day and i didnt get the email till that evening. i wrote her back and she said ' i'll see what i can do'. never heard anything else so i contacted the photographer myself and ordered them. maybe i shouldn't have done that, but i wanted the pics and she wasn't helping... she NEVER said she didn't want me to have the pictures.
SOO... fast forward to this morning, i get an e-mail from her saying ' you have no right to have our PRIVATE wedding pictures. please contact me ASAP so we can arrange for you to return them to me and get yor money back'. UMM... ok.... there were 150 peopl there that day who all had cameras... and the pictures i ordered weren't much different tha ones someone had taken with mine... just bigger.
GRRR!!! why are people so petty an bitchy?!?!
anyway... i just need to vent. i have sort of a love-hate relationship with my 'friend' ' sally'. sally and i were best friends in high school and lived together for 3 years of college. thats when the problems started. she would do little things that would annoy me and build up and cause arguments. it got even worse the second year we lived together and i started dating my now FH. she can't stand him, and made it VERY clear- to the point of her saying to me right in front of him ' melissa, i always wanted you to date so-and-so'. so whatever.
SOO.. she got engaged and about 6 months into the wedding planning asked me to be in it. i agreed, because we have been through a lot together. the wedding was in july. when she got her proofs back from her photographer she had me over to look at them. there were 2 that i wanted, but since they were $15 each, i told her i would think about it. the next day i e-mailed her and told her that i did want them and to order them for me and i would get her the money. she never got back to me until about a week later. the e-mail said ' i NEED to fax the order to the photographer this morning, so i need to know now if you want those pictures. mind you this was a work day and i didnt get the email till that evening. i wrote her back and she said ' i'll see what i can do'. never heard anything else so i contacted the photographer myself and ordered them. maybe i shouldn't have done that, but i wanted the pics and she wasn't helping... she NEVER said she didn't want me to have the pictures.
SOO... fast forward to this morning, i get an e-mail from her saying ' you have no right to have our PRIVATE wedding pictures. please contact me ASAP so we can arrange for you to return them to me and get yor money back'. UMM... ok.... there were 150 peopl there that day who all had cameras... and the pictures i ordered weren't much different tha ones someone had taken with mine... just bigger.
GRRR!!! why are people so petty an bitchy?!?!
