GRRR Rant about FH/FMIL

ahh forget it...im pissed thats all!

she doesnt seem to care bout a party she is paying 1/2 for....

never mentions anything that she receives...gifts/invite

acts like she dont kno who i am when i call

FH defends her on every lil and big issue

and im just mad about it... forget the long post...

gnite.

awwwww- i'm so sorry shes being like this to u!!!!

awww try not to let it get to you.. thats how I have decided to act. Just remind yourself that this is about the 2 of you.


I have similar issues. FMIL is wonderful but completely neutral about everything. It is making me crazy. If I show her something or mention an idea her reaction is... whatever you want, it's your wedding or your party. OMG can't she just say she likes it or she doesnt?

FH is wonderful about it. I just vent to him. We know that she is doing it because she has always felt controled by her family and doesnt want us to feel that way. But is really is annoying. I'm asking because I want her opinion.

Why can't we just mold them to be how we would lie? hahha...

Good luck!

hey..yah. i had written this longggg post about it..n then deleted it and gave the basics.

sometimes its weird..bc like my exs mother was so awesome...i was spoiled...like...i dunno..

i guess i should just let it go..like u all say and like my mom says

i just hate feeling like im not good enough and that she doesnt care.

thanks girls...

Keep your head up girl! You are good enough. She is just mad cause your taking her baby away. If you step up and take control, she might change her tune. Then you'll be calling you for the latest info. good luck

at the end of the day you just have to remember you get her baby boy.. and she cant deal with that.. and if she doesnt stop being an effin *&%!#* you dont have to let her see your future children.. lol
my sis has monster in laws.. so we often say this to her.. hope you feel better.. and for christmas buy her monster in law on dvd hopefully she'll get the point.

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Posted by jennielovesbryan

at the end of the day you just have to remember you get her baby boy.. and she cant deal with that.. and if she doesnt stop being an effin *&%!#* you dont have to let her see your future children.. lol
my sis has monster in laws.. so we often say this to her.. hope you feel better.. and for christmas buy her monster in law on dvd hopefully she'll get the point.

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I double dog dare you!

ooooooooooh thats an awesome idea! imagine!! hahaha

well at least you dont get food left on your door outside ...b/c she think i dont cook for him and starve him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

she comes every sunday mornin at lik 9 am to give him food...bc 'if she doesnt he will not eat'

funny tho he has eaten for the 5 yrs he is not at home.

hahahahah....My FMIL is very controlling and sometimes I feel as though she wants to date her own son. It is crazy and she drives me crazy! lol

Don't worry about it and yeah try to let it go.
Thing will always work out.

sorry you are dealing with this - i am here if you ever want to talk - i can definitely relate. . . i know i am definitely not good enough to marry her little boy who works soooo hard and has such a haaarrrd life ( bc u know, i dont work and i didnt go to school and i dont do anything. . . you didnt know that?)

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Posted by kimnsteve


well at least you dont get food left on your door outside ...b/c she think i dont cook for him and starve him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I think FMIL would have done the same thing if she lived closed by.
Thank God there's an 8 hour flight between us

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Posted by kimnsteve


well at least you dont get food left on your door outside ...b/c she think i dont cook for him and starve him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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btw this is SOOOO somehting my mom would to to my brother and SIL ( she hasnt yet but i bet she has thought about it!)

OOOO...HIS SISTER HAS DONE IT TOO!

she called the house last night to tell me she had chicken cutlets for him for lunch! ...i wanted to tell her where to go with her chicken cutlet

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Posted by Shell84

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Posted by kimnsteve


well at least you dont get food left on your door outside ...b/c she think i dont cook for him and starve him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I think FMIL would have done the same thing if she lived closed by.
Thank God there's an 8 hour flight between us

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lucky girl!

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Posted by kimnsteve

OOOO...HIS SISTER HAS DONE IT TOO!

she called the house last night to tell me she had chicken cutlets for him for lunch! ...i wanted to tell her where to go with her chicken cutlet

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HAHAHAHA so funny!

she called the house last night to tell me she had chicken cutlets for him for lunch! ...i wanted to tell her where to go with her chicken cutlet

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OMG!!!!!! Hahahaah.. that is INSANE


What did you say to that?
DId she bring them over?