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GRRRRRR...LAZY FH!

marymoon Posted:

GRRRRRR...LAZY FH!

I'm so annoyed with my FH. Is anyone else's like this?

He just graduated. I have to literally sit with him and force him to send out resumes..and then he whines that it's so tiring and he's so tired and he needs a break. My dad is giving him his car, and it's this big deal. he can't even be bothered to get it registered b/c he depends on his dad's car and it's always something else..and Now, we're supposed to go meet the landlord for HIS apartment, and calls me up an hour b4 we're supposed to meet the guy and says 'can you come pick me up?' UGH. Cause his dad's car is in the shop. Well now it's ready, and I said, he can take his dad's car and come get me here, becayse FH is half an hour away from me in the OTHER direction from the apartment which is a half an hour away as well. And he was saying it would take so long because he'd have to walk ten minutes to the car place first...um..ten minute walk vs, probably 45 minutes (it's rush hour) out of my way! WHAT!?!?!?! And he's angry with me because I said I'm tired of driving him around. First tot look at the apartment, several times back and forth to men's wearhouse for suits, anywhere he needs to go I drive him, and he's my FH, I love him, I don't mind doing things for him, but I don'[t want to be expected to do it because he's just lazy or his father is being a pain in the *** about the car....you know? and he's pissed at me and he keeps saying things like 'forgive me for having the audacity of thinking I could caount on you in an emergency' WhAT!>!>! It's not an emergency..it's a ten minute walk.. *sigh*


don424 Posted:

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talk to boosh about my laziness -- she'll make you laugh

marymoon Posted:

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Posted by don424

talk to boosh about my laziness -- she'll make you laugh



Where IS Boosh when we need her?

Hello?
don424 Posted:

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she's in transit -- on her way home

i'm really lazy so you're not alone
palebride Posted:

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I'd say stay strong and don't give in - otherwise the lazy behavior will continue......
but as far as the resumes go - he has to send them out - if you're the one hounding him, he'll do it for you and then resent any job he gets as a result.....i'm the samw way - it has to be on MY TIME otherwise, i'm annoyed....
give him time, hopefully he'll come around
don424 Posted:

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Posted by palebride

I'd say stay strong and don't give in - otherwise the lazy behavior will continue......
but as far as the resumes go - he has to send them out - if you're the one hounding him, he'll do it for you and then resent any job he gets as a result.....i'm the samw way - it has to be on MY TIME otherwise, i'm annoyed....
give him time, hopefully he'll come around



what she said
marymoon Posted:

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Actually every interview he's gotten was one I made him send out..and then he calims HE sent it on his own...LOL He has a 3rd interview with a major FI tomorrow...wish him luck..maybe he'll be better when he's more independent

palebride Posted:

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what, were you to lazy to retype what i said - you just use the quote button?
don424 Posted:

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Posted by palebride

what, were you to lazy to retype what i said - you just use the quote button?



yep, i was going with the trend
boosh78201 Posted:

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I feel your pain!!! Don424 is very lazy. He comes home eats dinner and then lies on the couch for the rest of the night. I cook, I clean basically do everything. On the weekend he is a little bit better. Hell vaccuum, load and empty the dishwasher, etc...

His excuse is I dont work as long as he does, so I should have more energy. What nerve

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